I Give Myself Permission To . . .

by Marelisa · View Comments

play ticketsIDEO, an award-winning design and innovation firm located in Palo Alto, California, created orange tickets that give people ten minutes of free play.

On a Thursday evening, two IDEO employees started giving out the tickets on their Caltrain ride back to San Francisco.  (You can see photos of the passengers’ reactions here.)

They wrote the following over at their blog:

“IDEO believes in the seriousness of play. It is a big part of our design culture. We encourage playfulness in everyday life. But sometimes it’s hard to get permission to play – so we’re giving out permission, 10 minutes of it, right there in that orange ticket.” (Source).

Taking IDEO’s concept a step further, what if you could write tickets to yourself giving yourself permission to do anything you wanted? What would your tickets say? What do you need to give yourself permission for?

Here are twenty things I give myself permission for:

  1. I give myself permission to rest.
  2. I give myself permission to laugh.
  3. I give myself permission to play.
  4. I give myself permission to make mistakes.
  5. I give myself permission to say “no” to demands on my time that are simply draining.
  6. I give myself permission to say “yes” to what I want.
  7. I give myself permission to fulfill my lifelong dreams.
  8. I give myself permission to ask for what I want.
  9. I give myself permission to be who I am.
  10. I give myself permission to try again.
  11. I give myself permission to have fun.
  12. I give myself permission to design my own life.
  13. I give myself permission to ignore naysayers.
  14. I give myself permission to stay focused on what’s important to me.
  15. I give myself permission to be whatever body shape I like.
  16. I give myself permission to be imperfect.
  17. I give myself permission to ask for help.
  18. I give myself permission to stop caring what others think of me.
  19. I give myself permission to write a lousy first draft.
  20. I give myself permission to create.

Please share in the comments what you’re going to give yourself permission for.

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1 Mindful Mimi October 23, 2009 at 2:50 am

Love IDEO. Love your permissions. Am on a roll to introduce fun and play at work. Hard work, but passion makes it fun ;-)
.-= Mindful Mimi´s last blog ..If you can’t feed a hundred people, then just feed one — Mother Teresa =-.

2 Marelisa October 23, 2009 at 8:02 am

Hi Mimi: Everyone benefits from more fun and play work. :-)

3 Garret Gillespie October 23, 2009 at 10:59 am

Had a counselor years ago tell me, “Be gentle on yourself.” Her point being that I had lost myself in a quest for perfectionism and a disproportionate need for “things.” She was right and so are you. Life is all about balance. Excellent post. Thanks, Garret

4 vered | blogger for hire October 23, 2009 at 11:07 am

I give myself permission to take the entire weekend off work.

Love it. :)
.-= vered | blogger for hire´s last blog ..Women Love Pink =-.

5 Marelisa October 23, 2009 at 11:21 am

Hi Garret: I’ve been guilty in the past of being extraordinarily hard on myself. We do need to be gentle on ourselves.

Hi Vered: You have permission! :-)

6 Hilary October 23, 2009 at 11:38 am

Hi MareLisa .. what a great idea those guys had .. and we all hate being taken by surprise in public situations .. very few of us can adapt!

Just at the moment .. I give myself permission to move on; I give myself permission to get on with things; I give myself permission to complete what I need to do and then be free to do the work I’ve planned to do.

Just at the moment I give myself permission to excel and rise above the crud surrounding me, so I can really prove myself.

A great idea .. thanks for telling us about them – looks fun!

Hilary Melton-Butcher
Positive Letters Inspirational Stories
.-= Hilary´s last blog ..Provender Hedgerows with Autumn Colours =-.

7 Positively Present October 23, 2009 at 11:44 am

What a great post! You’ve encouraged me to think about all of the things I want to give myself permission to do.
.-= Positively Present´s last blog ..working hard, playing hard =-.

8 Marelisa October 23, 2009 at 12:56 pm

Hi Hilary: Those are great things to give yourself permission for. Thank yo for sharing them. :-)

Hi Dani: Thank you. Come up with a long list. :-)

9 Karl Staib - Work Happy Now October 23, 2009 at 2:51 pm

I give myself permission to just relax with my work without trying to reach a goal.
.-= Karl Staib – Work Happy Now´s last blog ..The Hard, The Fun and The Beautiful – Cockroach Edition =-.

10 Marelisa October 23, 2009 at 8:24 pm

Hi Karl: That sounds like simply relaxing into the moment; that’s a good one. :-)

11 ami October 23, 2009 at 10:20 pm

I give myself permission to set manageable goals each day (like writing 1667 words a day – for 30 days :) )
.-= ami´s last blog ..Pausing for self-assessment =-.

12 Marelisa October 23, 2009 at 10:43 pm

Hi Ami: We’ll soon discover just how manageable writing 1667 words a day is. :-)

13 Lance October 24, 2009 at 5:33 am

Hi Mare,
Well, I just really connect with this post! It’s so, so good to read about what IDEO is doing, and then to see what thoughts this brought up for you.
I give myself permission to be goofy.
I give myself permission to listen to my heart.
I give myself permission to dream.
I give myself permission to live!
.-= Lance´s last blog ..A World Filled With Wonder =-.

14 suzen October 24, 2009 at 8:56 am

This list is SO important – thanks for putting this up! We are so guilty of forgetting our own selves sometimes. This list is liberating and allows us the freedom we often whine about not having!

Today, I am giving myself permission to have some nothing time – I will do nothing. (If you had any idea how hard this is for me to pull off, you’d know why I need the permission!)

15 Marelisa October 24, 2009 at 12:13 pm

Hi Lance: I’m thinking of writing these down and then putting them up somewhere I can see them. :-)

Hi Suzen: It is liberating to give yourself permission to have the freedom you want. :-)

16 Dawn Herring October 24, 2009 at 4:25 pm

I give myself permission to take care and refresh myself. My latest post is titled Take Care. Yes, laughter and having fun are something we can all use a little more of, that we don’t get near enough of. Plus it has health benefits!

Have a refreshing day.
Dawn Herring
JournalWriter Freelance

17 Marelisa October 24, 2009 at 7:45 pm

Hi Dawn: Even the word “refreshing” is refreshing. :-) I just gave myself permission to go for a long walk; I think that counts as taking care of myself.

18 Mitch October 25, 2009 at 12:12 am

I actually have to try to give myself permission to be healthy, something I rarely do, but something I’m planning on starting to work on more.
.-= Mitch´s last blog ..A Different Health Care Coverage Answer =-.

19 Stephen - Rat Race Trap October 25, 2009 at 9:31 am

Marelisa, I love that idea! I wish conservative old corporations would get some of that spirit. Anyway I think I’m going to give myself permission to just be happy today :-)
.-= Stephen – Rat Race Trap´s last blog ..Irrational Decisions – Anchoring and Arbitrary Coherence =-.

20 Mark Foo | 77SuccessTraits.com October 25, 2009 at 1:23 pm

Excellent idea and a great list!

I will give myself permission to believe and keep my faith.

Cheers~

Mark

21 Marelisa October 25, 2009 at 7:34 pm

Hi Mitch: I went through a period of time–a few years ago–in which I was neglecting my health and was instead working ridiculously long hours. We definitely need to give ourselves permission to be healthy.

Hi Stephen: I think more and more corporations are realizing the importance of play in the workplace, but I know there’s still a long way to go.

Hi Mark: Thank you. :-)

22 Chris Edgar | Purpose Power Coaching October 26, 2009 at 2:56 pm

Thanks for this Mare. I’m going to give myself permission to let go of the seriousness of my mission occasionally and joke around.

23 Patricia October 26, 2009 at 6:08 pm

I gave myself permission to stop reading your e-book about how to write an e-book and to see what you were doing today!

I gave myself permission to fast today and it is feeling very good

Thank you I needed to read this today, I am truly a failure at play…I just call certain moments play…but my mind says I am still busy working
.-= Patricia´s last blog ..Korny Zucchini Pizza =-.

24 Melissa Donovan October 26, 2009 at 9:46 pm

I give myself permission to dance. That’ll fix just about everything else!
.-= Melissa Donovan´s last blog ..Parts of Speech =-.

25 Marelisa October 26, 2009 at 10:21 pm

Hi Melissa: As long as we’re here, we should dance. :-)

26 Marelisa October 26, 2009 at 10:22 pm

Hi Patricia: I’m glad that you’re putting an cookbook together as an ebook to get some practice. :-)

27 Marelisa October 26, 2009 at 10:23 pm

Hi Chris: Visiting my nephews always works for me when I need to be less serious. :-)

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