Freedom, Nonconformity, and Unconventional Living

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Freedom, noncomformity, unconventional living“Don’t think you’re on the right road just because it’s a well-beaten path.” ~Author Unknown

The garden outside of Jose Sancho’s home in Escazu, Costa Rica, is filled with sculptures he carefully chiseled, most of which depict women and nature. He claims that he’s never taken a sculpture class; he taught himself. Yet his sculptures grace the lawn of the Art Museum of the Americas (part of the OAS) in Washington, DC, they’ve been auctioned off at Christie’s–the famous auction house in New York–, and his work has been commissioned by people and organizations from all over the world.

Jose Sancho started out as an economist. Then, at the age of 40, he had an epiphany: he was born to be a sculptor. Once he realized this, much to the shock and astonishment of those who knew him, he dropped everything to pursue his passion. Today he’s in his seventies and he’s never looked back. (The image at the top of this post depicts Jose at work; I found the image here. As an aside, I grew up in Costa Rica and my mother is friends with Jose and she has a beautiful, black marble sculpture of a penguin and his chick, created by Jose, in her living room, which is titled “Paternity”).

In Jose’s own words:

“I was born to be a carpenter, but the tools of the trade did not fall readily from the sky; it emerged from the struggle between a vocation imposed by an alienating culture, and the demands of a latent inclination that constantly fought to express itself. From that struggle came the redeeming action which shook my world to its roots. I had already lived through four decades of frustrating obligations for which I was not destined . . . sculpture opened up new horizons . . . ” (From the book, “Jose Sancho, 1975 – 1997″).

People have been abandoning their conventional lives for centuries, in the hopes of pursuing their true life calling and living a life of freedom and nonconformity. In the past couple of years, unconventional living has practically become a movement.

Below you’ll find a list of sites and blogs that cater to those who long to become who they were meant to be, create their dream business, travel the world, and live the life they’ve always dreamed of. For those of you dreaming of escape, I hope these sites help you to begin drafting your escape plan.

Jonathan Fields – Career Renegade

Freedom, noncomformity, unconventional livingJonathan Fields is a popular blogger who blogs over at “Awake at the Wheel” and who constantly asks people the following question: “What if you could make a living doing what you love?”

He started out in life as a lawyer, first at the S.E.C. and then at a prestigious, mega-sized New York law firm.  Then he realized that life as a lawyer was sucking out his soul, as well as destroying his health, and he made a radical change and became a $12-an-hour fitness trainer. He then went on to bigger things within the health industry, as well as embarking on other successful ventures, and he recently published a book aptly titled “Career Renegade: How to Make a Great Living Doing What You Love”.

When Jonathan left his law firm job he had three goals:

  1. To make a great living.
  2. To love what he did.
  3. To be around the people he loved.

Visit Jonathan’s site if these words ring true for you:

  • Corporate treadmill.
  • Office politics and endless posturing.
  • Your mind, body and spirit are slowly being sucked dry.
  • Personal fulfillment has taken a backseat to making money.

Here’s a quote from the book “Career Renegade”:

“The simple truth is you can turn nearly any passion into a big, fat heap of money. However, it often requires mining aspects of those passions you never knew existed or bringing them to life in markets and ways that defy the mainstream.”

Jonathan doesn’t believe in the conventional wisdom that says that if you do what you love the money will follow. He explains that this applies only if your passion happens to lie in a field with a clear path to great income, such as the law, plastic surgery, and so on. But if you love teaching, playing video games, painting, knitting, playing music, and so on, it’s doubtful that you’ll be able to make a great living simply by doing what you love.

This doesn’t mean that you give up on the idea of making a living by pursuing what truly makes you come alive, it simply means that you have to find an unconventional, renegade path to both passion and prosperity.  That is, you have to find a different way of doing what you love that will allow you to generate enough income to live comfortably.

“Career Renegade” is packed with hundreds of strategies, case studies, links and resources that will help you to do just that.  Not only does the book help you to develop the proper mindset for becoming a career renegade, it gives you a step-by-step approach to actually make things happen.  You can download the book’s introduction, for free, here.

(Image of Jonathan Fields taken from here.)

Escape From Cubicle Nation – From Corporate Prisoner to Thriving Entrepreneur

Freedom, noncomformity, unconventional livingPamela Slim, the voice behind the blog “Escape From Cubicle Nation”, has the following to say about entrepreneurship:

“Entrepreneurship at its heart is aligning your purpose for being on earth with a business idea so compelling that you simply must do it, despite the fears that hold you back.”

When she left the corporate world she started a company which she named “Ganas”–which in Spanish means having an intense desire to do something, inner motivation, exuberance, and drive–since that’s what she feels every day as she approaches her work and what she wants her clients to feel as well.

Think the “safe” thing to do is to stay at your corporate job, even if you hate it? Think again.  Slim starts off her book, Escape from Cubicle Nation: From Corporate Prisoner to Thriving Entrepreneur (yes, her book and her blog have the same name), with an anecdote about the morning in which almost everyone in her father’s office was suddenly laid off. She goes on as follows: “One woman had worked her entire career at the company, as had her father and grandfather until retirement. She came into work at 8:00 a.m., was given a cardboard box to pack her belongings, and was escorted to the exit door by 8:20.”

Pamela explains that by being clear on what your ideal life looks like you can craft an entrepreneurial vision that will help you pursue your goals. She cites the “sweet spot” described by Jim Collins, which is the place in which the following three sets of skills overlap:

  • What people will pay you to do
  • That for which you have great passion
  • That which you are “genetically encoded” to do

In “Escape From Cubicle Nation” (the book), Pamela covers it all: coming up with a good business idea, recruiting help and support, defining your brand, getting your finances in order, creating a business plan, and actually starting a business. Click here to download the introduction to Pamela’s book for free.

(I found the image of Pamela Slim here.)

Four More Blogs for Nonconformists

Here are four more blogs that will help you down the path toward unconventional living:

  • In his blog, “The Art of Nonconformity”, Chris Guillebeau writes about personal development and life design, entrepreneurship and unconventional work, and international travel (by the end of 2012 he plans to have visited every country in the world). His life philosophy is basically that you should live life according to your own terms, and that you can help yourself and help others at the same time.
  • The blog “Location Independent” was created by Lea and Jonathan Woodward. They explain that being location independent–working and living from any part of the world they choose–is a concept, a lifestyle and a mindset.

What If Your Dream Is Simply to Travel?

The travel blog “Brave New Traveler” has a great list of “12 Personal Travel Websites That Will Make You Quit Your Day Job”. One example is “Down the Road”:

“We are Tim and Cindie Travis, an ordinary American couple who decided to live out our dreams. We saved our money, quit our jobs, sold our possessions, and set off to travel around the world by bicycle. We left our home in Arizona, USA on March 31, 2002 and have been on the road ever since. Our plan is to continue to bicycle tour and travel for the next several years.”

Conclusion

This post started with the tale of Jose Sancho, who at the age of 40 realized that he was not meant to be an economist, but was instead born to be a sculptor.  I’m going to wrap things up with Gauguin.

Eugene-Henri-Paul Gauguin, renown today for his colorful paintings depicting an idyllic island paradise, was a middle-aged Paris stockbroker who suddenly realized his life’s passion was painting.  He turned his back on his old life and fled to Tahiti. Gauguin is now considered the most important post-Impressionist painter who ever lived. (Of course, I’m not advocating that you abandon your family as Gauguin did, all of the examples in this post are family-inclusive.)

So, where are you fleeing to? :-)

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  • That's a great quote by Jonathan on how to make a living doing what you love.
    Interesting you grew up in Costa Rica. I've never been but would like to go some day. As you know, it's a well traveled surf destination. But, then again, so is Panama.

    Cool story about Jose. Wonderful that he finally started on the path of doing what he loves.

    I really do think it's worth giving it all you got to do what you really want.
  • Marelisa
    Hi Bamboo: I actually grew up in several places, but I spent most of my childhood in Costa Rica. I don't surf, but I had a boogie board. :-) We should all definitely try to find what we love to do, if not, it's as if we didn't fulfill our purpose for being here in the first place.
  • I'm a first time visitor who expects to be spending quite a bit of time over here. I've only time enough to get a quick peek at your place, however, I like what I see. As a dream weaver who is currently wandering a bit aimlessly, I look forward to mining the wisdom that you have offered here.

    Blessings,
    Carolynn
    .-= Carolynn´s last blog ..Critter Update =-.
  • Marelisa
    Hi Carolynn: All dream weavers are welcome here! :-)
  • Wonderfully inspiring post! The only one I was familiar with was Gauguin - I agree he was a bit radical leaving his family. I remember years ago listening to Wayne Dyer talk about following our bliss - he said go do it, the money will follow or you'll find you don't really need what you thought you needed financially because your life will change. The point was to DO IT. I paint and write - neither for the money but because I wouldn't be living if I didn't. It's "orders" from my soul or something. I simply must.
    .-= suzen´s last blog ..Wounded Warriors, Love & The Chain of Pain =-.
  • Marelisa
    Hi Suzen: Thank you. I love Wayne Dyer: I own several of his books and home-study courses. I completely agree that we need to follow our bliss, even if we can only do so in our spare time while we figure out a way to make a living from it. Definitely listen to orders from your soul. :-)
  • I love reading posts and articles that have a positive perspective on nonconformist lifestyles. Too often, people who are different are misunderstood and wrongly judged. This is a welcome look at how living unconventionally is beneficial and can lead to success and happiness. Now, the only trick is getting the rest of the world (the conformists, the conventional) to see that it's all good.
    .-= Melissa Donovan´s last blog ..Writing Resources: Natalie Goldberg’s Writing Down the Bones =-.
  • Marelisa
    Hi Melissa: I read a quote that said that society celebrates its live conformists and its dead troublemakers. :-)
  • Thanks for this Mare. What struck me about the sculptor story was that in our culture we tend to assume that you "can't compete" in some field without years of specialized training and starting really young, and it was nice to see someone disproving that myth.
  • Marelisa
    Hi Chris: We certainly live in a youth obsessed culture. Who says you can't learn new tricks throughout your life? Now that I know how to learn it's a lot easier for me then when I was younger.
  • Great post. As much useful material here as you could have in a blog article on this topic. Thanks!
    .-= Stephen - Rat Race Trap´s last blog ..Finding Your True Self =-.
  • Marelisa
    Hi Stephen: I'm very glad you found the post useful. :-)
  • Just an awesome, inspiring post, Marelisa!

    And I never knew that about Gaugin. THAT makes my day.
    .-= Jannie Funster´s last blog ..Another video from my CD release show =-.
  • Marelisa
    Hi Jannie: Yep, he met several of the Impressionists, started hanging out with them, and decided he had found his life's calling in painting.
  • Marelisa
    Hi Mitch: Thank you. I agree with Pamela as well. Corporations are watching out for the bottom line and they do not have their employees' best interests in mind. You are the best person for you to work for.
  • I love this post, Marelisa, and I kind of follow what these people do. That's why today I'm writing using my other blog, because it leads to my own business as an independent consultant. I love what Pamela wrote about people feeling "safe" in the corporate world; I absolutely agree, it's a false safety. More power to people who give their life's dreams a shot.
    .-= Mitch´s last blog ..Sometimes You Just Have To Get It Done =-.
  • Marelisa
    Hi Julie: I completely agree that it's important to release any negative beliefs you may have about your ability to make money by doing what you love (in addition to finding a way to align what you do with what people are willing to pay for). I use EFT and the Sedona Method to release negative beliefs.
  • Thanks for this article. I appreciated Jonathan's wisdom around the often quoted statement "Do what you love and the money will follow." It doesn't always seem to pan out that way, particularly if people have beliefs around not being able to earn money doing what they love. Clearing those blocks can open up the creativity required to see new ways of following your passion. That's why I like Meridian Tapping Techniques which are so good at clearing blocks.
    .-= Julie´s last blog ..Spreading the Word =-.
  • Marelisa
    Hi Mimi: Sounds like Sark's micromovements, which I love. Some people need to make bold, drastic changes, whereas others move slowly. As long as you're moving in the direction of your dreams, either speed is fine. :-)
  • Funny that... I am turning 40 this year and thinking about turning my life around. Maybe not that dramatically but with what Christine Kane calls 'baby steps'. It is working well so far :-)
    Thanks for sharing these links.
    .-= Mindful Mimi´s last blog ..How to Make Your Life a Drama-Free Zone - by Christine Kane =-.
  • Marelisa
    Hi Lance: You're completely right, it's about listening to your inner voice. Society says: "work as an economist for the World Bank", but your inner voice says "you're a sculpture". So which one do you listen to? Hopefully your inner voice.

    I like the point that Jonathan makes too. It's like the sweet spot that Pamela talks about too: it's about the point in which what you love to do, and what people will pay you, for intersect. Love playing video games? Why not create online tutorials teaching others the strategies you use to go from level to level? Love knitting? Why not create patterns for scarves, sweaters, and purses, and sell them online?
  • Marelisa
    Hi Julie: We are molded into conformity, and it starts at a very young age. It takes most people years and years to rediscover who they truly are, and by then a lot of them feel it's too late to make a change or "make waves", as you say. And yet it's the so-called troublemakers that truly make humanity move forward. Writing a book sounds wonderful!

    Hi Shannanigans: It's not about how much suffering we can successfully put up with, it's about how much joy we get to express each day as we do our work. I know the feeling of having your soul being sucked out of you; it's horrible. Sounds like you're ready to start planning your escape. :-)

    Hi Keith: I'm glad you're on your way to where you want to be. And yes, we all have days in which we struggle. You're very welcome.
  • Hi Mare,
    This speaks so much to really letting our inner voice out. And that's such a beautiful thing - just as the example of Jose Sancho shows. I'm especially drawn into the idea that Jonathon Fields shares about just because you love something, that doesn't mean money is just going to fall out of the sky for you. If we love it enough though, our idea, our inspiration - then I think that's where creativity and genius kick in - and we can find new and unique ways to employ these deep desires of ours.

    Awesome article Mare! So good to read today...
    .-= Lance´s last blog ..There Is Greatness Within =-.
  • Very inspiring article, and I tell you this...I really needed this today. I believe in what this article depicts and I have immersed myself in the work that will take me where I want to be. I am a human being though, and I have my struggles like anyone else. Today was one of those days. I made it through it and stayed true to myself and my dreams but definitely felt drained. Reading this article really helped me shake that off.

    Thank you for writing it. :-)
    .-= Keith´s last blog ..Obstacles Are Opportunities =-.
  • wow just what I needed. I was just conversing with a fellow blogger about how I am stuck in a dead end job that is sucking the spirit out of me. I am definitely picking up this book. I need big changes, and you know you need change when no amount of money makes you want to stay.
    .-= Shannanigans´s last blog ..You bettah recognize! =-.
  • Hi, Marelisa: This is a particularly wonderful article! It seems we're all coached and molded into conformity, so it's so heartening to see so many wonderful examples of people making other choices. These are the ones showing the rest of us that we aren't "making waves;" rather, going our own way simply means we are being true to ourselves. You've asked, where am I fleeing to? Home. Home to write a book! It's where I've wanted to be for 30 years, and I'm no longer waiting for "someday." ;) Thank you for such an inspiring article and introductions to other free spirits!
    .-= Julie´s last blog ..The Honor is All Mine =-.
  • Marelisa
    Hi Jonathan: Thank you for stopping by. I think it's awesome how you encourage people to make a living by doing something they love. Life's too short to settle for an unsatisfying career.
  • Hey Marelisa!

    Thanks so much for including me in this wonderful gathering of people and also for introducing me to Jose's story and your great blog!

    Jonathan
    .-= Jonathan "Not the cookie ladie's son" Fields´s last blog ..NY Area Renegades: Spend a Day with me and Pam Slim =-.
  • Marelisa
    Hi Hilary: A novel at 93, that's brilliant! Thank you for sharing that.

    Hi Karl: I knew you wrote poetry but I didn't know you wanted to create art with your hands as well (which sounds like painting or sculpting). It sounds like a wonderful dream to have your own studio.
  • I follow all these blogs and you are right. They all have a unique perspective on creating the life of your dreams.

    I'm a huge fan of art and I like your story of Jose. I hope to have my own studio some day too. First I have to get my consulting business off the ground, so maybe in 20 years I'll be able to create art with my hands.
    .-= Karl Staib - Your Work Happiness Matters´s last blog ..The Target in the Bull(y)’s Eye =-.
  • Hi Marelisa .. thanks that's a brilliant post with lots of useful resources. It's so interesting to learn of others' experiences; I hope entrepreneurs wouldn't be so stupid as to go off on their own without their future planned initially .. and develop their dream as they go!

    There's a 93 year old lady here who's just published her novel - it's a success! So we can all pursue our dreams.

    Thanks great information .. you've done a stellar job in your usual professional way
    Hilary Melton-Butcher
    Positive Letters
    .-= Hilary´s last blog ..Panthera Leo =-.
  • Marelisa
    Hi Evelyn: Of course you shouldn't just drop everything, especially when you have family to think of. Both "Career Renegade" and "Escape From Cubicle Nation" indicate that you need to develop a plan and work toward entrepreneurism, neither advocate just leaving your job and then starting to look for what to do next.

    That's why I say in the introduction: "For those of you dreaming of escape, I hope these sites help you to begin drafting your escape plan." It's the idea of the Sacred Dance again: you need a Survival Dance (probably a corporate job for a lot of people) until you find a way to make the money you need from just performing your Sacred Dance.
  • Thank you for sharing about "Jose Sancho". Very inspiring that he changed his career at a time when most people would not dare make a change.

    To be honest, I am pretty concerned of too much inciting news to get people to quit their jobs and take off. While it sounds like a great idea, the change may require some pre-planning. There are also family considerations to think of.
    .-= Evelyn Lim´s last blog ..Love The Man In The Mirror =-.
  • Mare, such a beautiful, inspiring post. I'll admit that I've always been happy conforming, but I still enjoyed this article a great deal. I hope it will inspire those who are unhappy with their lives to take action.
    .-= Vered - MomGrind´s last blog ..Retouching As An Act Of Kindness =-.
  • Marelisa
    Hi Vered: I met Jose many years ago and I remember thinking how brave he was to pursue his passion. His home is his art studio and it's filled with his sculptures, which are just glorious. I hope to own one some day.
  • Thank you for the wealth of resources in this post. I can't wait to check out all these blogs.
    .-= Lori´s last blog ..Farewell to Michael Jackson =-.
  • Marelisa
    Hi Lori: You're very welcome. They're wonderful resources, I'm sure you're going to enjoy them. :-)
  • Beautiful article! It`s good to be different no?
    .-= Elaine B.´s last blog ..5 Advertising Gimmicks that Appeal to a “Part” of You =-.
  • Marelisa
    Hi Elaine: I'm glad you liked it. :-) Yes, we each need to be ourselves, even if the world tries to push us to be like everybody else.
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