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Zen Capitalism: Randy Komisar

by Marelisa · 55 comments

“Passion and drive are not the same at all. Passion pulls you toward something you cannot resist. Drive pushes you toward something you feel compelled or obligated to do. If you know nothing about yourself, you can’t tell the difference. Once you gain a modicum of self-knowledge, you can express your passion . . .” — Randy Komisar

I recently came across a few videos by a fascinating man named Randy Komisar. He holds a BA in Economics from Brown University and a JD from Harvard Law School, and for several years he has partnered with entrepreneurs creating businesses with leading-edge technologies.  He also has a shaved head, wears cowboy boots, rides a motorcycle, and meditates daily.

Randy is part of a new breed that have been labeled “Virtual CEOs.” He has worked at Apple Computer, LucasArts Entertainment, Crystal Dynamics, Claris Corporation and GO Corporation. In addition, he has helped to build WebTV, TiVo, Mondo Media and many other emerging companies.

He’s a Consulting Professor of Entrepreneurship at Stanford University and author of the best-selling book “The Monk and the Riddle: The Art of Creating a Life While Making a Living” in which he shows readers how deals are made and businesses get started in Silicon Valley. Some have called his business philosophy “Zen capitalism”.

Below you’ll find several elements of Randy’s ” philosophy”.  You may or may not agree with everything he has to say, but he offers a lot of interesting ideas to think about.

The Art of Creating a Life While Making a Living

Randy’s book, “The Monk and the Riddle”, starts off with the following anecdote:

Randy was motorcycling across Burma, now Myanmar, and he gives a monk a ride on his motorcycle. After a long afternoon of riding they arrive at the spot where the monk had indicated he wanted to go. A few minutes later, the monk asks Randy to take him back to the same place where Randy picked him up. Randy was deeply perplexed for a moment, but then it sinks in: the monk really didn’t have a destination in mind; he just really liked riding on motorcycles. In other words, the journey is the reward.

Three additional lessons found in the book are the following:

  • Don’t make the mistake of taking the “Deferred Life Plan” in which you sacrifice your current happiness for the hope of happiness later when you’ve reached a certain goal.  Randy advocates that you make now as fulfilling as possible while staying open to opportunities for the future.
  • It’s not worth it to devote your time to a project if you’re doing it just for the money.  You need to be truly passionate about your work. He says the following about passion: “[Passion] is the sense of connection you feel when the work you do expresses who you are. Only passion will get you through the tough times . . . It’s the romance, not the finance that makes business worth pursuing.”
  • It’s about the people you work with.  If you go for success at the expense of other people, you won’t be successful for long.

How Does Someone Choose Their Passion?

Randy argues that instead of “the passion”, you should free yourself up to think of “a portfolio of passions”. (Source). Then you need to marry that portfolio of passions to the opportunities in front of you. He argues that there are two questions that will completely paralyze you:

  1. What is my one, true passion?
  2. What is the ultimate thing that I’m going to do with my life?  That is, what is the ultimate mark that I’m going to make?

He explains that the first question will paralyze you because now you have to optimize amongst ten things that seem like they might be your passion. While it’s not difficult to choose between a right and a wrong answer, it’s very difficult to choose among lots of right answers.

The second question needs to be simplified to north, south, east, or west. That is, think of a general direction you’re going to face instead of a specific point in the horizon you’re going to aim for. Ask yourself the following questions:

  • What is the general direction I want to move in?
  • Once you decide which direction you’re going to face, ask yourself the following question: Right in the foreground—instead of way off in the distant horizon—what’s there, what opportunities are present, and how does that sync up with my passions?

Randy adds that his career only makes sense if you look at it in the rear-view mirror.  He had no idea what he wanted to do; he would pursue opportunities until it became clear to  him that those opportunities weren’t going to give him the fulfilment or satisfaction that he wanted.  He would then try to find, pursue, or create new opportunities for himself that would lead to a fulfilling life.  Today he loves his life as a Virtual CEO.

Failure is An Unavoidable Part of the Search for Success

Randy explains that what distinguishes Silicon Valley is not its successes, but how it deals with failure.  (Source). They strike out more than they hit homeruns: that’s by definition the case.  Innovation is about taking the risk to do things that have never been done before; they act within an industry of experimentation.  It’s a laboratory.

So the question then becomes: how do we deal with failure?  You have to create a culture of constructive failure: the ability to tolerate failure, proceed with your career, do it again, and take your experience and cash in on it as an asset.

Part of being an entrepreneur is being able to take risks and fail.  Komisar indicates that he’s had plenty of failures.  Go Corporation, for example, was a huge financial failure. It was a pioneer in pen-based computing which was founded in 1987 and closed about seven years later after burning through $75 million of venture funding.

However, most of the people who were at Go Corporation do not see it as a failure in the broader sense: they see it as a success in terms of the development of character, esprit de corps (group spirit), and the tools for dealing with immense challenges. Here are some of the people who were a part of Go Corporation:

  • Mike Homer went on to Netscape
  • Stratton Sclavos went on to found VeriSign
  • Bill Campbell went off to run Intuit
  • Komisar went off to run LucasArt Entertainment (with George Lucas)

That is, even if a venture fails you gain experience, and it’s then a matter of asking how to redeploy that experience around a different opportunity.  What you normally see is the following:

  • Failure
  • Mediocre Success
  • Bingo

Teaching Entrepreneurship

Although some argue that entrepreneurship is something that cannot be taught, Randy explains that there are a lot of aspects of entrepreneurship that can be taught or reinforced.  You can give people the tools to help them be able to identify opportunities, acquire the resources to make those opportunities successful, and finance the opportunities.

What generally can’t be taught is the spirit of entrepreneurship.  If someone doesn’t have the curiosity, the moxie, and the motivation to innovate and to stand up to the skeptics, then there’s no way to fashion these people into a successful entrepreneur.

On the other hand, a lot of people do have that basic personality or character, but it has not been reinforced.  Those people can be broadened and exposed to entrepreneurship in ways that can lead to very successful entrepreneurs. (Source).

He also adds that bright, hard-working entrepreneurs fail all the time for reasons that are not within their control.  A lot of success is due to market forces and situations that create the opportunity for success.  It’s not about blind luck; it’s about the notion of the prepared mind meeting chance: opportunities happen outside of their control and they’re able to take advantage of them.

To be a great entrepreneur you have to work hard and be smart,  but you also have to be able to take advantage of opportunities as they are created not necessarily by you, but by others or by the market around you.  (Source).

Conclusion

Do you agree that you should think in terms of “a portfolio of passions” instead of your one true passion?  Do you agree that the entrepreneurial spirit is something that can’t be taught (you either have it or you don’t)? Do you think you could tolerate a $75 million failure?

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Roger - A Content Life April 25, 2009 at 7:56 pm

Wow! This is one of the best posts that I’ve read in awhile. My favorite parts are about the “Deferred Life Plan” and the avoidance of “one, true passion”. I agree with everything in the post. I think I’m going to read the book.

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Mare April 27, 2009 at 4:50 pm

Hi Roger: It’s so good to have a name for something that so many people out there are doing: “Deferred Life Plan”. I would love it if Stanford would post one of Randy’s lectures on YouTube :-)

Elaine B. April 25, 2009 at 8:32 pm

Another winner! It came at the best time since I recently announced publicly my web design retirement.

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Mare April 27, 2009 at 4:46 pm

Hi Elaine: The time comes when it’s time to move on. Best of luck on your next endeavor :-)

Carole -Rejuvenation Lounge April 25, 2009 at 9:14 pm

Hi Marelisa,

Exceptional article and something the really speaks to my heart.

I thoroughly enjoyed, as always.

You are an inspiration.

Peace, love and chocolate

Carole

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Mare April 27, 2009 at 4:45 pm

Hi Carole: Thank you, Randy’s lessons really spoke to me as well :-)

Evelyn Lim April 25, 2009 at 11:00 pm

Marelisa, I wonder how you do it. You’ve always got interesting stories to share and your articles are always well researched and extremely well written. I thoroughly enjoyed the story about the Monk and the Riddle and your feature of Randy Komisar in this post!

I completely resonated well with what Randy shared. Firstly, it is true that each of us may have one natural talent. It can also be the case that we have more than one interest that we can marry together. Secondly, it is my personal observation that goal setting and detailed planning have not worked for many of us. I have now chosen instead to work with a general direction. Also, instead of worrying ten steps ahead, I am now moving in alignment to what my next most natural step is. In so doing, I get to understand what it is that I like to do and choose to have these more in my experience.

Thank you once again for the awesome post. I totally appreciate the lessons that are highlighted here! I am going to check out the videos!

Wishing you every success,
Evelyn

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Mare April 27, 2009 at 4:43 pm

Hi Evelyn: Thank you, I guess it’s the marrying of my love for learning new things, doing research (I guess that’s the lawyer in me), and writing :-) I agree that working in a general direction is a better strategy than trying to pre-plan every step ahead of time. It’s about having faith that as you move along the next step will reveal itself instead of trying to “foresee” every step ahead of time. Much success to you too Evelyn :-)

Lance April 26, 2009 at 6:45 am

Hi Mare,
Excellent! I’m moved by this – and especially by the idea of a portfolio of passions. And the story about the journey. Life is about the journey – more and more every day for me. And I’m now thinking about this concept of a portfolio of passions – and what this means for me. Great stuff to think about!

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Mare April 27, 2009 at 4:37 pm

Hi Lance: I actually found a video that featured Randy, I watched it, thought he had some fabulous things to say, and proceeded to do more research on him and his philosophy. Now I kind of feel like getting a motorcycle :-)

Positively Present April 26, 2009 at 6:48 am

This is really inspiring post for me. Thanks! I really loved learning about the difference between “drive” and “passion.” I’d never thought about it before and it makes a lot of sense. It’s also really important to realize that failure is a part of success. I think we’re sometimes so scared of failing that we miss out on succeeding and we’d be a lot better off if we just accepted failure as part of the deal.

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Mare April 27, 2009 at 4:35 pm

Hi Positively Present: There are a lot of people out there who are terrified of failing, while the reality is that the most successful people out there have failed many, many times. It’s a question of being able to learn from failure and use it as experience that will help you turn the next opportunity into something successful.

Stacey / Create a Balance April 26, 2009 at 7:17 am

I do believe in “a portfolio of passions” and appreciate hearing Randy define it. I have several passions I am incorporating into my dream business. I don’t think the entrepreneurial spirit can be taught, but I think it can be nurtured.

I would not be able to tolerate a $75 million failure. If you ask me this question in 20 years from now, I’d be interested to know if my answer changes.

Stacey / Create a Balances last blog post..7 Strategies for Putting Your Authentic Self First

Mare April 27, 2009 at 4:33 pm

Hi Stacey: I think that depending on the kind of business you’re in $75 million can be an astronomical sum or practically pocket change. I heard Donald Trump on CNN a few months ago and he was talking about some of his friends who had lost I don’t know how many millions of dollars in the stock market and he was basically laughing about it. So I guess it’s a matter of perspective.

Dawn April 26, 2009 at 8:38 am

I am 39 years old…I am going back to school this fall…I think/hope that I have finally found my passion…I am very excited to get started!

Mare April 27, 2009 at 4:27 pm

Hi Dawn: Kudos to you for taking the necessary steps to move toward your passion. I wish you the best of luck :-)

Akemi - Yes to Me April 26, 2009 at 10:34 am

I think this guy is on the spot regarding the unproductivity of “one true passion” myth, also called the “ultimate life purpose” myth. It’s based on the perception of scarcity and limitation: people think their resources are limited so they want to focus on one thing. Ironically, by thinking this way, they actually limit themselves, and most spend their time seeking this one thing, rather than following their natural passion.

Finding passion is easy! If anyone is clueless, I suggest watching a small kid. They naturally have a “portfolio of passion”.

Another related myth is that it’s no good to get bored, that there is something wrong with me or my choice if I get bored with what I do. I currently have a successful business that I love, but I’m also interested in several other things that may seem unrelated. I spend significant amount of time on these “unrelated” interests. Eventually, I don’t mind leaving my “successful business” and start something completely different. I don’t think this is a problem or waste of some kind. It sounds like Randy follows his passion in a similar way.

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Mare April 27, 2009 at 4:25 pm

Hi Akemi: I think you’re right: the one true passion myth does seem to be related to scarcity mentality along the lines of “I have limited time and resources so I better find one thing to focus on and not scatter my few resources on other things”.

Attract Prosperity April 26, 2009 at 12:55 pm

Hi Mare,

Another great post. Thanks for introducing me to Randy, he sounds like a very interesting person.

Our passions are what God placed us on earth for. It makes sense that we will be happiest and most successful when following our passions.

Ryan

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Mare April 27, 2009 at 4:21 pm

Hi Ryan: Thank you. It’s definitely easier to be happy when you’re doing something that is in line with your talents and with what you enjoy doing.

Davina April 26, 2009 at 1:50 pm

Hi Mare. I totally agree that focusing on one thing narrows the path. We become more attached to the outcome. I see passion as the feeling — the essence of who we are, and the drive is how focused we are on living that passion.

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Mare April 27, 2009 at 4:19 pm

Hi Davina: I like how you put it that focusing on just one thing narrows our path. It’s much better to drive along a broad highway :-)

Mindful Mimi April 26, 2009 at 3:36 pm

Mare,
He sounds like a great guy and I will look for his book. I agree with him that it’s all about the journey. When I tend to forget that I look at my kids who are still young enough to have no clue about organised life and time:-) And I try to keep that for as long as possible.
Thanks for sharing.

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Mare April 27, 2009 at 4:14 pm

Hi Mimi: I really like his definition of passion versus drive. It’s the difference between being pulled toward something that you really enjoy and pushing yourself to strive continously toward something you think you’re supposed to be doing. I would much rather be passionate about something than driven to accomplish a certain goal.

Vered - MomGrind April 26, 2009 at 3:37 pm

It’s very human to declare we’re not happy now, but once we achieve a certain external goal, we will be happy. As you point out, it’s a mistake. I agree with Mr. Komisar that while we need to be flexible and open to changes and opportunities, true happiness lies in essentially doing what optimists do naturally: wanting what we have, instead of striving to have what we want.

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Mare April 27, 2009 at 4:05 pm

Hi Vered: I really like how Randy combines zen concepts with entrepreneurship. You can be a very successful business person while at the same time working on project you’re truly passionate about and enjoying the journey.

Catherine Cantieri, Sorted April 26, 2009 at 4:46 pm

Loved this post! I can certainly vouch for how trying to pick The One Thing for your life is paralyzing. I’ll check out Randy’s book. I liked the parable of the monk and the biker. :)

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Mare April 27, 2009 at 4:02 pm

Hi Catherine: Thank you, I like the story about the monk too. I can just see Randy riding along on his motorcycle with a monk riding on the back having the time of his life :-)

Daphne @ Joyful Days April 26, 2009 at 6:50 pm

Mare,

I like the idea of a portfolio of passions. It’s true that people, including me, sometimes get hung up on “The One”, whether this applies to passion or charities to support or searching for a partner or anything else. Also great tip on facing one direction at a time.

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Mare April 27, 2009 at 4:00 pm

Hi Daphne: Feeling like we have to narrow things down in that way can be very paralyzing. On the other hand the concept of a portfolio of passions is very liberating.

Cody Dream-Life-Coaching April 27, 2009 at 5:10 am

Entrepreneurship is really nothing more than a series of beliefs and anybody can adopt any belief, therefore, yes I believe it can be taught. The bigger problem is who has those skills and actually has the sense of self awareness to verbalize them to a would be student? $75 million? Bring it on baby!!

Mare April 27, 2009 at 3:52 pm

Hi Cody: So you’re saying that how motivated a person is and how risk tolerant/adverse they are can be traced back to a series of beliefs? That’s interesting.

Karl Staib - Work Happy Now April 27, 2009 at 6:57 am

A portfolio of passions is a great way of describing how I look at my life. We are all such talented people it’s almost a shame to waste it, going so hard after just one thing. I think it’s better to go hard after a certain type of thing, but try many different talents to reach it.

Mare April 27, 2009 at 3:50 pm

Hi Karl: I think that’s exactly what Randy is saying: choose the direction you’re going to face and then open yourself up to many different opportunities within that general direction.

Alex Fayle | Someday Syndrome April 27, 2009 at 7:28 am

I totally agree with the idea of a portfolio of passions. I have a whole bunch of passions and in different ways I’m pursuing them all – and loving life all the more for it!

Mare April 27, 2009 at 3:46 pm

Hi Alex: I wonder who came up with the concept of the one true passion. That concept has given a lot of headaches to a lot of seniors about to graduate from college who don’t have their entire life panned out ahead of time.

Bamboo Forest April 27, 2009 at 7:38 pm

I like this line, ” Innovation is about taking the risk to do things that have never been done before; they act within an industry of experimentation. It’s a laboratory. ”

I like the idea of doing what has never been done before or at least doing something that has been done, but in new and creative ways. Perhaps that is one way to gain attention in the blogosphere. Though, it can also lead to failure too.

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Mare April 29, 2009 at 3:30 pm

Hi Bamboo: I like the idea of a laboratory too. It frees you up to say “I didn’t fail, I just conducted an experiment and now I’m going to analyze the results and try again”.

Kiki April 29, 2009 at 12:43 am

Mare, this a fantastic post! The concept of having a portfolio of passions rather than just limiting yourself to one feels so liberating. Giving ourselves permission to have more than one passion is such a powerful idea – it really unlocks the paralysis of trying to define “just one.” Clarifying the push-pull difference between drive and passion makes a portfolio of passions feel even more freeing.

Thanks for another fantastic piece of work! I’ll be linking to this in my Fizz Fix weekly roundup that comes out on Saturdays.

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Mare April 29, 2009 at 3:27 pm

Hi Kiki: Thank you. Every video that I watched by Komisar (I watched about 12 of them) contained a nugget of wisdom that just made me think, “wow”!

Kelly@SHE-POWER April 29, 2009 at 8:34 am

Excellent post! I think I’m going to have to buy this book – he sounds like a very smart man. I definitely think the whole one passion concept is a lie for most of us, particularly if you’re trying to link it to a career. I’ve known people to try and build a working life around a passion, but then find instead it actually kills the passion. I like the idea of moving in a general direction – it’s much kinder to ourselves and more in line with staying in the present and not trying to control everything in life. It also allows for the universe to throw you a bit of magic.

I don’t believe everyone is cut out to be self employed or an entrepreneur, but to some extent I definitely think many of the skills can be taught. The inquisitiveness that initiates entrepreneurial activity may not be able to be, but then this is only one piece of the puzzle. If you don’t have discipline and financial smarts and a multitude of other factors going for you, you won’t last as an entrepreneur anyway.

Could I get over losing $75 MIL? I can’t even comprehend that amount of money, so right now, I’d have to say probably not. :)

Kelly@SHE-POWER

Mare April 29, 2009 at 3:26 pm

Hi Kelly: I think you’re right that thinking of it in terms of a portfolio of passions is far less controlling than trying to identify and then pursue one passion. And I also agree that it keeps you open to all of sorts of unexpected possibilities.

Melissa Donovan April 30, 2009 at 2:55 pm

I can’t wrap my head around a $75 million success, let alone a $75 million failure. Yowsers. I do think that a “portfolio of passions” is more reasonable approach to life, especially for entrepreneurs and creative people.

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Mare May 2, 2009 at 6:07 pm

Hi Melissa: We need to start thinking bigger :-)

Patricia April 30, 2009 at 11:29 pm

Once again you have written something I needed to read today…synchronicity
Thank you…I will follow up on this fellow.

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Mare May 2, 2009 at 6:06 pm

Hi Patricia: I’m always glad to hear that :-)

I TAKE OFF THE MASK May 2, 2009 at 1:24 am

A drive is often spurred by the will and the conscious mind, whereas passion is ignited by love. We do not choose our passion, it is our passion that chooses us first. We only respond to it, as we respond to love.

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Mare May 2, 2009 at 6:02 pm

Hi Jocelyn: Beautifully put :-)

Stacey Shipman May 3, 2009 at 7:15 am

I love the idea of a portfolio of passions. So many people around me focus on one thing, and for a long time that got me stuck, too, thinking that must be the way. Then I realized I have passion for a lot of things and I want to do them all!

Could I handle a $75 million failure? I don’t know..is it money I would have to pay back? That would probably make a difference! And the internal knowing of whether or not I gave it my absolute best shot. If I did, then I have lots of new knowledge. If I didn’t, I would probably live with that guilt for a while.

Mare May 5, 2009 at 4:17 pm

Hi Stacey: Most people are stuck in the “I have to find my one true passion mindset”. I’m now passionate about blogging and it’s something I wouldn’t even have thought of doing a year and a half ago.

Remigio May 18, 2009 at 8:15 am

I think the portfolio of passions is an excellent idea. In addition what if we think of the time we need to nurture of passions.

jacob June 4, 2009 at 6:51 am

Hi Mare!!
The book’s gives us a timeless advice to make work pay not just in cash, but in experience, satisfaction, and joy will be embraced by anyone who wants success to come not just from what they do, but from who they are.. This what I can say about the book gr8t work …..

Mare June 4, 2009 at 10:05 am

Hi Jacob: That’s certainly the best possible approach to work. Thank you for your input. :-)

sandy March 19, 2011 at 11:15 am

Just getting around to reading this post. I think he’s right about Silicon Valley. And even the “Silcon Valley” of our lives where we come up with ideas and spread them around our small universes which are part of the bigger cosmos.

There is a beautiful website by a Valleyer which merges Zen with Productivity. I hope you enjoy this one: http://www.valleyzen.com/about-valley-zen.htm

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