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Five Stress-Busting Techniques for Busy People

by Marelisa · 36 comments

Before proceeding with the five stress-busting techniques, let’s begin with a test to determine your stress level. Read the following description completely before looking at the picture:

The picture below was used in a case study on stress levels at St. Mary’s Hospital. Look at both dolphins jumping out of the water. The dolphins are identical. A closely monitored, scientific study revealed that, in spite of the fact that the dolphins are identical, a person under stress would find differences between the two dolphins. The more differences a person finds between the dolphins, the more stress that person is experiencing. Now look at the picture:

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Did you find more than one or two differences between the two dolphins? If so, you’re in dire need of the stress-busting tips below:

The Stress-Busting Time Table

“The Stress-Busting Time Table” is a stress management technique I found over at netdoctor.co.uk. Basically, you create a table with three columns:

  • The first column lists one hour increments from the time you get up in the morning to the time you go to bed.
  • In the second column you pencil in what you plan to do during each of those hours.
  • Then in the third column you write down what you actually did.

At the end of the day you compare the last two columns so that you can assess where you’re overcrowding your day and expecting too much of yourself.  In fact, I would add that you could also have a fourth column in which you can jot down how you feel as you’re performing each activity so that you can better identify stress triggers.

  • What activities cause you the most stress?
  • Are you underestimating how much time you need to complete each task?
  • Are you spending too much time on tasks that don’t really need to get done or that someone else could do?
  • Is there someone in particular who is present during times of high stress?

Eat Oranges

Eating oranges helps reduce stress because of their wealth of vitamin C. Studies suggest this vitamin can reduce levels of stress hormones, such as cortisol, while strengthening the immune system.  In a German study researchers subjected 120 people to a stressing event: a public speaking task combined with math problems. Half of those studied were given vitamin C and the other half were not. Signs of stress–such as elevated levels of cortisol and high blood pressure–were significantly greater in those who did not get the vitamin supplement. (Source).

Switch Brain Hemispheres

This is a technique suggested by Michael Kerr.  As you know, for different activities we rely more heavily on either our left or right brain hemispheres.  You can reduce stress by switching to an activity that uses the hemisphere of your brain that is not causing you stress.

For example, if the source of your stress is centered in the creative and emotional right hemisphere–you’re feeling depressed, anxious, worried or otherwise emotionally distraught–, then change to a task that requires more of your left hemisphere to kick in, such as filling out a sudoku puzzle, organizing, or performing some other task that requires linear, sequential thinking.

If the stress is a result of being time pressured or overworked, chances are your left brain hemisphere is stressed. In this case, do a right-brain activity, like engaging in play, playing a musical instrument, drawing, or engaging in some other creative pursuit.

Have a Handful of Pistachios

In a Penn State study researchers added pistachios to a healthy moderate-fat diet and investigated the effects on cardiovascular response. The nut was incorporated into the subjects’ diets and both psychological and physical stressors were then introduced.

The researchers found positive results with as little as 1 and 1/2 oz of pistachio added daily to the diet, which reduced the high blood pressure effects of stress. Consuming 3 oz of pistachios daily showed even greater relaxation of the arteries, thereby easing the workload on the heart. (Source).

The One Minute Miracle – Yoga for the Hands Ritual

“The One Minute Miracle” is a book by Daniel Millstein that describes a one minute yoga for the hands ritual that uses 12 simple hand gestures and affirmations. This ritual has helped thousands bring more peace into their lives.  You can perform this ritual by following along with the YouTube video below:

Editor’s Note: A few people have sent me messages because they don’t see two dolphins in the picture. Um, it’s a dolphin and a cow (it’s a joke, since laughter is a great way to relieve stress). And for the record, I was also kind of worried at first when I saw the cow :-)

(Dolphin Stress Test courtesy of Tidewater Muse)

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{ 33 comments }

Rupal December 12, 2008 at 6:35 am

Love these tips! Thanks!

Just discovered your site today, really have enjoyed reading through it!

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Cath Lawson December 12, 2008 at 10:33 am

Hi Mare – I am getting worried because one of the dolphins I saw was a cow.

I have done the writing down task before and it really is worthwhile. It’s amazing how much time you can waste on non-productive things. I will be trying the yoga for hands later. I’ve tweeted this post.

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Natural December 12, 2008 at 10:56 am

hey Marelisa. I recently had a full body massage and it was wonderful. i could feel him moving the “stress” out of my body.

i drink a cup of OJ every morning. is that the same thing?

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Mare December 12, 2008 at 11:13 am

Hi Rupal: Glad you’re enjoying it, thank you :-)

Hi Cath: I was a little worried when I came across “The Dolphin Test” too. The good news is that it is a cow :-) Laughter is one of the ways of relieving stress :-)

Hi Natural: Drinking OJ does count, as well as eating other fruits and vegetables that have Vitamin C.

Chris December 12, 2008 at 1:55 pm

Switching brain hemisphere, thank you, this will come real handy.
I get stressed early in the morning when I try to get ready and get the children ready for school and then get to work dealing with my students. What advice can you give me to alleviate my stress during these times.?

Chriss last blog post..I Shall Return

Hunter Nuttall December 12, 2008 at 2:00 pm

I guess I’m in trouble regarding the dolphin test. On the left I see a cat, and on the right I see an orange.

What I hear is that vitamin pills aren’t nearly as good as foods that naturally contain vitamins. Is that true?

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Mindful MImi December 12, 2008 at 3:02 pm

Mare,
I was always a big fan of the left vs right brain and finding the correct balance. A few weeks ago I managed to get a few colleagues together to make a little piece of art (each of them having to paint a very small canvas – then all canvases were put together to make a big picture). In the beginning they were all stressed out, nervous as well, saying they are unable to paint, not creative etc. After a while, laughter and/or silence set in. And when we were done (this took about 1 hour to 1,5 hours) they all told me what fun it was (even if some of them did not like their result) and that we should do this more often.
Doodles are a right brain break from left brain stress also.
Thanks for the post.

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Kim Woodbridge December 12, 2008 at 4:24 pm

LOL at Hunter ;-)

I didn’t know about the switching brains technique – I’m definitely going to try that. I wonder if we are doing that unconsciously when we are struggling with something and decide to step away from it for a couple of minutes.

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Tumblemoose December 12, 2008 at 4:36 pm

A few years back I worked an Exec position for city government. I had a particularly nasty little turf war conflagrating around me. I had one of those gel filled stress balls. I’m sitting in another exec’s office discussing things, squeezing the ball and eventually… yup. You guessed it. I broke the stress ball. Gooey gel everywhere. So glad I’ve moved on…

Wax-on, Wax-off.

Cheers!

George

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Vered - MomGrind December 12, 2008 at 5:39 pm

Haha loved the dolphin test. :)

Oranges and pistachios. Hmm. I love both. Sounds easy enough. :)

Mare December 12, 2008 at 8:01 pm

Hi Chris: The only way to relieve morning stress is to get up a bit earlier and have some me-time. Then make sure everyone has a pre-established morning routine that they stick to. I have an egg-timer in the bathroom so that I get out of the shower in five minutes.

As for your students I would recommend that you meditate so that you can stay in a calm, peaceful mood regardless of their shenanigans :-)

Mare December 12, 2008 at 8:08 pm

Hi Hunter: If you click over to the article that talks about the benefits of Vitamin C, it indicates that taking supplements is an option. And seriously, when I first saw that cow I thought to myself: “I had no idea I was under so much stress” :-)

Hi Mimi: That sounds like a great exercise. I had a boss who was always doodling to relieve stress (he was actually very good).

Hi Kim: I think you’re right. A lot of the time we unconsciously know what to do to feel better, we just need to pay more attention to our inner voice :-)

Hi George: When people start squeezing those balls so hard that the gel comes out, you pretty much know stress levels are at an unacceptable level.

Hi Vered: I love oranges and pistachios too :-)

Wesley December 12, 2008 at 9:13 pm

This is obviously a scam. Do you honestly think anyone is stupid enough to fall for it?

*reads comments*

Oh.

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kathy December 12, 2008 at 9:21 pm

I think I need a vacation. I saw a dolphin and a motorcycle. Time for a road trip. The idea of switching brain hemispheres works too.Writing for fun and coloring (thanks for the reminder that we’re never too old to color in your last post) are great stress busters.

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Mare December 12, 2008 at 9:22 pm

Hi Wesley: Exactly, “oh”.

Mare December 12, 2008 at 9:34 pm

Hi Kathy: I’m seriously in awe that you know how to ride a motorcycle :-)

Davina December 13, 2008 at 1:12 am

Hi Mare. I decided that it was the photographer who was stressed out… not me :-) What helps me to relieve stress… when it gets unbearable??? I stop doing what I’m doing. I “surrender”. Have a glass of wine. Watch a movie. Take a walk. Eat chocolate… just unplug.

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Evelyn Lim December 13, 2008 at 2:29 am

Sorry, I couldn’t quite get past your picture. The rest of the content on your article was lost on me. I was laughing away at the picture and thinking that this must be some kind of trick question. There are no two dolphins for sure!! Neither did I venture to guess what the differences are. These are just two animals springing out from the water!

Then, I got to the end of your post in the editor’s note. Ahhh…..I was right!

Hunter’s comments also made me laugh all over again!!

Oh…now I see it….you’ve just helped me relieve any stress that I may have had prior to reading your post!

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Paunchiness December 13, 2008 at 11:20 am

I thought for a minute there I was supposed to free my mind and actually believe there was no cow.

Fish oil also helps with stress and depression check my blog for more info on both vitamin c and fish oil. Http://www.paunchiness.com/tag/fish-oil

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Bamboo Forest December 13, 2008 at 1:54 pm

Hehe, – yeah – I was wondering about the dolphin / cow interpretation. I thought the probability was that it was indeed a joke. A funny one at that.

I’ll tell you – that guy’s voice in the opening of the video is enough to melt my stress away.

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Lance December 13, 2008 at 6:33 pm

Hi Mare,
Here I was thinking stress wasn’t too bad in my life…and then I fail this test miserably!!!!
So, I’m going to eat more oranges! (and maybe pistachios…)

I find my stress level to typically not be too bad. However, it seems highest for me when I’ve had a lack of sleep, combined with some event that’s out of the ordinary. I’ll have to practice the right brain/left brain technique…

Lances last blog post..Kindness Comes In Small Gestures

Robin December 13, 2008 at 11:42 pm

ha ha Marelisa – I got the joke. We must all be feeling very stressed! (And I misread Lance’s last blog post, above me, as “kidneys come in small gestures” – oh well).

Must be time for some pistachios!

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MizFit December 14, 2008 at 6:56 am

Im back :)
the first time I read this I was stresssssed out. Toddler home sick. Husband getting sick. As a result I read and applied not read and comment.

such a creative bunch of stress reducing thoughts…and they work.

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Laurie December 14, 2008 at 9:50 am

I was supposed to see a dolphin and a cow? I saw a nun and Obama. Oh I am in so much trouble!

Karl Staib - Work Happy Now December 14, 2008 at 3:01 pm

I’ve always switched over to drawing when I felt stressed out. It helps me relax, now I know why. I’m switching over to the other side of my brain.

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Stacey / Create a Balance December 14, 2008 at 5:36 pm

The dolphin photos gave me a good laugh and I loved the yoga video. Short, easy to follow, yoga/meditation options are perfect for my lifestyle.

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Mare December 14, 2008 at 8:43 pm

Hi Davina: I agree, the photographer is the one with the problem :-)

Hi Evelyn: See, there’s a method to my madness. It’s always good to be understood. :-)

Hi Paunchiness: I agree that omega 3 fatty acids are great for relieving stress.

Hi Bamboo: I thought we were getting too serious over here at Abundance blog :-)

Hi Lance: Everything gets more complicated when we don’t get enough sleep, even simple tasks.

Hi Robin: Wouldn’t that be something: to look out toward the ocean and see a dolphin and a cow pop out :-)

Mare December 14, 2008 at 8:46 pm

Hi MizFit: Sorry to hear your hubby and baby are coming down with something. Feed them oranges :-)

Hi Laurie: You’ll have to explain to me the relationship between Obama and a nun sometime :-)

Hi Karl: Yep, one side of the brain giving you trouble? Give it a time out and play with the other side for awhile :-)

Hi Stacey: I think that yoga video is remarkably effective, especially for something that only takes one minute.

Carla December 14, 2008 at 9:13 pm

I’m going to have to try the Yoga technique!’
I currently take B Complex and 5-HTP, but I can use additional tips!

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Erwin Tan December 17, 2008 at 2:30 am

Nice article..

I didn’t know Vitamin C can fight stress.. Nice!

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Mare December 17, 2008 at 7:57 am

Hi Carla: Try it, it only takes one minute :-)

Hi Erwin: I’ve always taken a lot of vitamin C to fight off colds, but now I know I’ve been fighting stress too :-)

Harun Azis January 13, 2009 at 10:41 am

brain is need relax too. try to traveling to mountain with natural condition

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Audrey December 29, 2009 at 7:57 am

Thanks for these tips! At the end of my work day I watch funny videos online and laugh my head off. They are a great stress reliever too.

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