There is nothing we can do about our chronological age. However, doctors and scientists are continuously discovering actions we can take to turn back the clock by focusing on our biological and psychological age. Your psychological age is your subjective experience of how old you feel. In turn, your biological age can be determined by measuring several factors, such as the following (Source: Grow Younger, Live Longer: Ten Steps to Reverse Aging):
- Blood pressure
- Amount of body fat
- Auditory and visual thresholds
- Hormonal levels
- Bone density
- Skin thickness
- Cholesterol level
- Aerobic capacity
You can begin by determining your “real age”, or the biological age of your body, by taking the test here. Then proceed to apply the fourteen tips below and begin to turn back the clock.
1. Let go of the myth of inevitable decay.
Scientists are discovering that the more you buy into the notion that getting older means losing your mental acuity, the more likely you are to succumb to it. Yale University psychologist Becca Levy, Ph.D., explores psychosocial influences on aging, particularly, how older individuals’ perceptions of aging affects cognition and health.
Through her research she has found that older people shown negative words about aging, such as senile, before taking memory tests did significantly worse on the tests than those shown positive words about aging, such as wisdom. In fact, people who saw positive words improved their scores. Levy has also shown that in cultures with a more positive view of aging than the culture in the United States and other western countries, older people perform better on memory tests.
In addition, her research has shown that older individuals with more positive self-perceptions of aging lived 7.5 years longer than those with less positive self-perceptions of aging. Even hearing decline can be predicted by a person’s stereotypes of the elderly.
2. Floss regularly.
Research has shown a distinct connection between periodontitis and cardiovascular disease. Consider this: a study found that men under age fifty with advanced periodontal disease were 2.6 times more likely to die prematurely and 3 times more likely to die of heart disease compared to men with healthy teeth and gums. The most common cause of periodontitis is poor oral hygiene, and daily brushing and flossing and regular professional cleanings can greatly reduce your chances of developing this condition.
In addition, flossing and clogged arteries also may be related. Research has revealed that the same bacteria in tooth plaque are also found in the deadly fat deposits that obstruct arteries. Researchers speculate that bacteria from the mouth may enter the bloodstream and contribute to inflammation and artery clogging. (Source: www.realage.com).
3. Keep a positive attitude.
Since 1986, University of Kentucky scientist David Snowdon has been studying 678 nuns hoping to discover secrets of the brain. In particular, what happens to the brain as we age. His findings, known as the Nun Study, have shed some light on how to live a mentally active life well into old age. One of his findings is that a positive emotional state at an early age might help ward off disease and even prolong life. In fact, there is a growing body of literature that shows a correlation between a person’s attitude and their physical health, mental health, and longevity.
4. Exercise
James M. Rippe, M.D is a best-selling author, world-renowned cardiologist, and founder of the Rippe Lifestyle Institute. He explains that if you look at all the risk factors for dying, the one that is most predictive is fitness level. In addition, an older person with high cardiovascular fitness is healthier than a younger person who is physically inactive. By increasing your fitness level, you can actually roll back your biological clock.
5. Stress management.
Studies have shown that between 60 and 90 percent of all physician visits are for stress-related complaints. Stress has been linked to everything from the common flu to cancer. In addition, cardiac disorders, hypertension, anxiety, depression, chronic pain, sexual and fertility problems, and diabetes all are exacerbated by stress. In order to increase your life expectancy you need to decrease the probability that you’ll get sick, which means you need to lower your stress level. These posts will show you how to lower your levels of stress:
6. Meditate.
Deepak Chopra, M.D., the world’s foremost expert on the mind-body connection, states in his book Ageless Body, Timeless Mind that studies have shown that long-term meditators can have a biological age between 5 and 12 years younger than their chronological age. Levels of the stress hormones cortisol and adrenaline are often found to be lower in long term meditators, and their coping mechanisms tend to be stronger than average. For those of you that have trouble meditating, I recommend The Silva Life System.
7. Keep healthy-looking skin.
This tip won’t help you live longer, but as long as you’re working toward lengthening your life span, you might as well look good while doing it. Amy Wechsler, dermatologist, psychiatrist, and author of The Mind-Beauty Connection: 9 Days to Reverse Stress Aging and Reveal More Youthful, Beautiful Skin, explains that retinoids are wrinkle reducers. There are certain beauty creams that contain retinoids, but they can also be found in food, such as carrots. Eating carrots helps balance the pH of the skin’s surface, making it slightly acidic. That’s good news, because slightly acidic skin fends off bacterial invaders. In addition, dark chocolate improves skin’s texture, thickness, hydration, and blood flow.
8. Eat plenty of foods rich in anti-oxidants.
Dr. Mehmet C. Oz, M.D., co-author of the book You: Staying Young: The Owner’s Manual for Extending Your Warranty indicates that antioxidants are anti-aging foods, and one of his favorite sources of antioxidants are blueberries. He says the following: “All foods with dark colors in them have some of these really protecting antioxidant chemicals in them.” Other good anti-aging foods include broccoli, tomatoes, and the acai (pronounced “AH-sigh-EE”), a small fruit from South American rainforests that is often found in the United States in juice. He recommends that you eat about five servings of antioxidant-rich foods a day.
9. Eat plenty of fiber.
Dr. Oz also explains that one key to staying young is to keep your intestines healthy and bowels regular. This takes about 25 grams of fiber a day. Fiber works by keeping all the nutrients you eat in your intestines and releasing them as needed. It can be found in fruits, vegetables and foods rich in whole grains. Try the following:
- Wrap sandwiches in whole wheat tortillas instead of white.
- Choose whole-grain cereal for breakfasts and snacks.
- Try brown rice or whole-wheat pasta.
- Have steel-cut oatmeal for breakfast.
10. Get enough sleep.
A study conducted by the University of Chicago Medical Center found that cutting back from the standard eight hours of sleep to four hours each night produced striking changes in glucose tolerance and endocrine function — changes that resembled the effects of advanced age or the early stages of diabetes — after less than one week. Researchers concluded that chronic sleep loss may not only hasten the onset but could also increase the severity of age-related ailments such as diabetes, hypertension, obesity and memory loss.
11. Keep the mind engaged.
An enormous amount of data uncovered in the last two decades confirms that the brain retains its plasticity–that is, its ability to grow new neurons and the connections between them–throughout life. In addition, brain ailments commonly associated with getting older can also be diminished by keeping the brain stimulated. Dr. Yaakov Stern, Division Leader of the Cognitive Neuroscience Division of the Sergievsky Center at Columbia University indicates that “Individuals who lead mentally stimulating lives, through education, occupation, and leisure activities, have reduced risk of developing Alzheimer’s. Studies suggest that they have 35 to 40% less risk of manifesting the disease.”
12. Stop smoking.
Dr. Rippe, whom we previously mentioned, also admonishes that if you’re in your 50’s and you smoke, you are cutting off seven years of your life. In addition to accelerating the aging process, smoking wrinkles skin and makes you look old beyond your years.
13. Drink wine, in moderation.
Have you heard that red wine in moderation can be good for your health? Dr. Oz explains that part of the reason is the alcohol and part is resveratrol, a powerful antioxidant that comes from the skins of grapes. Vintners add the grape skins back to make red wine, but they don’t do the same process for white wine—so white wine has no resveratrol benefit. “Resveratrol does one other thing,” Dr. Oz says. “It turns on a system in your body that prevents your cells from aging. . . Eighty percent of the benefit of the wine is actually the alcohol, and 20 percent is the resveratrol,” Dr. Oz says. “So it’s the combination that makes red wine so valuable.” He adds that most people should drink about one glass of red wine a day, though some men can drink slightly more because males metabolize alcohol more effectively than females.
14. Get lots of love and nurturing.
Dr. Marian C. Diamond is one of the world’s foremost neuroanatomists. She was conducting research with young rats to determine whether enriched conditions accelerated the growth of dendrites. An enriched environment is one in which 12 rats are put together in a large cage filled with a variety of play objects. In contrast, an impoverished environment houses one rat with no objects to play with. The enriched rats ran maze tests faster than the impoverished ones, showing a greater ability to solve problems.
Dr. Diamond wanted to conduct the same experiment with older rats, and she chose 600 day-old rats, which is roughly the equivalent of a 60 year-old human. However, several of the rats would die around the 600 day-old mark. She decided to try and improve the rats’ longevity by adding an extra ingredient to the experiment: love. Instead of putting the rats immediately in their control cages after they were cleaned, the scientists involved in the study held them against their lab coats and petted them. The rats that were petted lived considerably longer than those that were not.
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Kelly@SHE-POWER 10.13.08 at 7:17 am
This list actually makes me feel pretty good. I tick most of the boxes, though I had no idea flossing was so important and I am ashamed to say I am terrible at regular flossing. I have always had great teeth and I probably take them for granted too much. The eating food rich in anti-oxidants is actually very enjoyable because it’s so damn tasty! I think the problem many of us have with diet is we get into bad habits and we need to step back, make some conscious choices. Once we do, we find the taste sensations are better than the junky stuff anyway.
I’m starting a meditation course at the end of the month at my local Buddhist temple, so hopefully I’ll be back in the swing of my meditation soon. (I think I told you I’ve been having trouble with it)
And if an active mind keeps people young, then blimey I’ll be a mental teenager until the day I die. My mind doesn’t turn off and I’m a sponge for reading and learning! And my blog habit has only made that worse.
Another great article Mares. And just noticed your new RSS count. You’re going gangbusters! What’s triggered that - anything in particular, or has your hard work finally just started to pay off?
Kelly
Writer Dad 10.13.08 at 8:05 am
Okay, so I have two to work on this time. I’m embarrassed to admit it, but I could do a MUCH better job flossing. Also, I could definitely get more sleep. Right now, I’m terrible.
Stacey / Create a Balance 10.13.08 at 8:09 am
I am able to check off most of the boxes too. I hate flossing (but promise myself that I’ll work on it). I have wanted to have my own meditation practice for years, but can’t seem to make it stick. I like Kelly’s idea about taking a meditation class. Any group activity usually keeps me accountable. Thanks for this thought provoking post.
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m 10.13.08 at 9:32 am
Great list! I need to work on the meditate and sleep thing!
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Mare 10.13.08 at 10:27 am
Hi Kelly: I need to cut down on the amount of food I eat (food is my downfall), but I’m doing well on everything else on the list. In fact, people tend to think that I’m about ten years younger than I am. (I’m 37 and everyone I come across thinks I’m 25). You did tell me about the meditation, I’m glad you’re taking that course
As for my subscriber count, I changed around the two columns on the right. In the left column I had a long Silva Life System banner, then a small Sedona Method banner, and then the recent comments widget. Now I added a text widget that says “Welcome!” and talks a little bit about me and my blog, and I made the Silva Life System banner smaller and put it on the right column lower down. I guess that makes my blog look more welcoming and people want to stick around more
Mare 10.13.08 at 10:30 am
Hi Writer Dad: The good news is, flossing is an easy thing to add to your routine
Hi Stacey: I can definitely feel the difference between the days that I meditate and those that I don’t. When I meditate I’m calmer and in a much better mood. If there’s a class near you, definitely take it
Hi Mark: Thank you, I think that most people are sleep deprived
Vered - MomGrind 10.13.08 at 11:16 am
I’m with Kelly: I’m good about most of these - except stress management and meditation. Maybe if I keep reading you and Evelyn I’ll be inspired to try meditation.
Also joining Kelly to say WOW! on your new subscriber count.
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Bamboo Forest 10.13.08 at 12:59 pm
These are great tips.
I like the notion that our expectations have an influence on how we age; I think I do buy this notion.
We should remain positive in our aging, then we will enhance our chances to remaining mentally robust.
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Hunter Nuttall 10.13.08 at 1:53 pm
I started meditating because of you and Evelyn, though I haven’t been consistent. But I just added it to today’s to do list, so we’ll see how I do.
I’m glad that I do most of the things on this list. Sleep is a new one that I’ve been trying out lately. I love sleep, and it’s good to see research confirming that it’s important!
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Natural 10.13.08 at 2:45 pm
i can testify to no. 10 - getting enough sleep is so important. the body needs to recharge and not giving it the rest it needs leads to all kinds of problems, like the ones you mentioned.
i’m listening now and my bed time is back to 10:00 and i take naps if i need them.
thanks M.
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MizFit 10.13.08 at 4:21 pm
ooooooooh I love this.
my great aunts are 89 and 87 and young as can be (like your grandmother Id imagine) because they stay current.
it amazes me how they have embraced changed (hit the internet! have cell phones!) even though it has been, at times, daunting.
it has kept them *so* very young.
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BC Doan 10.13.08 at 4:25 pm
This is a great list of 14 wonderful tips. Meditation is always help to calm my chaotic inner war! The only thing I can’t work on is drinking wine (I’d love to), but I’m allergic to alcohol
Cath Lawson 10.13.08 at 4:47 pm
Hi Mare - I dare not look up my biological age. But the flossing thing is truly shocking. The smoking one makes me feel better though. You mention losing 7 years at 50. I’m 39 now, so if I stop - i should be ok.
Mare 10.13.08 at 5:20 pm
Hi Vered: You should definitely consider taking up meditation; (actually, you could have meditated through the “Beverly Hills Chihuahua” movie you went to see with your two daughters the other day
). And thank you.
Hi Bamboo: I think that’s something important to keep in mind, especially in western culture where a lot of people think you’re over the hill at 30.
Hi Hunter: A convert!
I agree it’s refreshing to see that something you enjoy doing is on the “good things for you” list.
Hi Natural: We definitely need to listen to out bodies more. I’m actually feeling kind of dehydrated now, so I’m going to go get some water.
Mare 10.13.08 at 7:12 pm
Hi MizFit: I’m glad to hear about your great aunts. My grandmother has a lot of things she’s passionate about, mostly music. We all need something that we’re passionate about
Hi BC: Thank you. You know, I lived in Italy for a year and my friends and I would have a glass of red wine with dinner every day. Now that I came across this research I think I’m going to start that again. Sorry you’re allergic to wine
Hi Cath: Human cells are great at regenerating themselves, and I’ve read that in a span of X number of years (can’t remember how many) we basically have brand new lungs. But please don’t wait to be 50 to stop smoking.
Ellen Wilson 10.13.08 at 8:04 pm
Hi Mare,
This is really good stuff and I hope you work it more in your column(s).
All of this stuff is very interelated so the more that you practice of the above, the better.
I’m very sensitive to body/mind changes so I instantly feel one tradeoff from another. For instance, if I eat too much food, I feel a corresponding decrease in mental agility.
I’m going to print this off Mare, thanks.
Chris 10.13.08 at 8:15 pm
I definitely need to floss more and I need to learn how to meditate.
Karl Staib - Work Happy Now 10.13.08 at 9:11 pm
I love flossing! I can’t go to bed without flossing then brushing my teeth. It’s a habit that I passed on to my wife. Sometimes we are flossing together before bed and I just wonder - this is it? Then that’s okay. It makes me smile because flossing with my wife makes me happy. I know I’m a cheeseball.
Anywho…
What a great list. My favorite is #1. We decide what we become. If we are resigned to wilting as we get older that’s what will happen. We have to believe we will stay strong and prosperous. That way we can stay helpful for a long long time.
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Evelyn Lim 10.13.08 at 10:45 pm
I like the idea of keeping a positive attitude and keeping my mind engaged. Hanging around the blogs that belong to positive friends, such as yours, also helps to keep me energized, youthful and happy
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Mare 10.13.08 at 11:00 pm
Hi Ellen: I know what you mean about it all being interrelated. If you don’t sleep well you tend to reach for sugary foods to give you a quick jolt of energy, which means you’ll have mental fog a little while later and will need more sugar, which means you gain weight, which makes you more sluggish . . . Or the other way around: if you sleep well, eat well, exercise, and meditate, you’re more likely to make more healthy, life-affirming choices . . .
Hi Chris: I think a lot of people weren’t aware of the importance of dental hygiene to avoid heart problems
And definitely take up meditation.
Hi Karl: I wouldn’t say I love flossing, but it’s definitely part of my routine. Clean teeth and fresh breath are very high on my must-have list. That’s funny about you and your wife flossing together
I think as a society we need to change our negative views about getting older.
Hi Evelyn: Having meaning and a positive attitude are very important to a long and productive life. And so is having connections with positive, life affirming people, which is one of the reasons I’m so grateful for the blogging community I’ve become a part of. I’m happy to count you as one of my blogging friends
Peter | The Change Blog 10.13.08 at 11:36 pm
All good tips Marelisa! It’s nice to know the glass of red wine I drank last night will help keep me young
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Mare 10.14.08 at 12:10 am
Hi Peter: Dark chocolate, red wine, blueberries . . . who said staying young was hard
LiveWellSimply 10.14.08 at 12:39 am
Pretty interesting list. I’ve got some areas to work on I think. Of course, in your 20’s, you don’t think much about this.
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Maya 10.14.08 at 12:56 am
Mare,
Your posts are so informative …how long do you work on a post? It seems like you work pretty hard to put everything together here!
Based on your list, it is a lot of fun - this business of staying young
…and I should be doing pretty well if I just start meditating 
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Davina 10.14.08 at 2:13 am
Hi Marelisa. I can check them all except exercise, meditation and sleep. I’m making the effort to bring them back though.
I’ve heard about the perils of not flossing. Because I’m at risk for dental problems, I don’t think I’ve missed one day yet this year. Do I win a prize? Wonder if I could try for a world record if there is such a thing
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Glee Girl 10.14.08 at 3:33 am
I think I will forward this to my mother, she really needs to read that bit about the myth of inevitable decay. She’s only 58, but to talk to her you’d think she’s 78. She seems to think she has no control at all over turning into a creaking physical wreck. I find it very frustrating!
I have done the ‘real age’ test - can’t wait to see what they have to say, although I think I already know what I need to do….
PS Beautiful photo
Lance 10.14.08 at 4:33 am
Another wonderful list Mare! I feel pretty good reading this list - there are many that I do. But then…flossing - only occasionally (I need to get better at this!). And sleep - another one I really need to improve upon. The great thing is, making these a habit now, will change your life going forward - I know - take exercise. Before I was doing this regularly, my life was on a slow and steady downhill decline. Once I added exercise into my life, I turned this process around quickly. And now, I’m healthier than I’ve ever been before (and I never want to go back to where I was again)!
Mare 10.14.08 at 10:25 am
Hi Josh: That’s right, most people in their twenties don’t think much about staying young. However, things like getting enough sleep, meditating, stress reduction, eating well, and so on, help the brain work better at any age.
Hi Maya: I do work hard on my posts, I’m glad it shows. And I think that staying young is a lot easier than most people think
Hi Davina: My dentist’s office was decorated by a feng shui expert and they have a masseuse give you a neck and head massage while you wait for the dentist. I don’t exactly look forward to going to the dentist, but it’s a lot more pleasant than the usual dentist’s office
Hi GleeGirl: My mother is 57 and she thinks she’s 25
Hi Lance: The benefits of regular exercise are incredible. I’ve read it even makes your body produce the human growth hormone. I go to the gym every day Monday to Friday.
Stacey Shipman 10.14.08 at 12:44 pm
I do most of these as well and I also believe it’s more about feeling young rather than staying young. Aging is inevitable. In addition to the above list, I would add drink plenty of water.
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Mare 10.14.08 at 1:36 pm
Hi Stacey: Yes, water is certainly vital. And aging is inevitable, but there are 60 year-old people who have a biological age of 80, while there are 60 year-old people who have the biological of 40. Our actions and our attitude play a major role in how well we age.
Oktober Five 10.14.08 at 2:08 pm
So it’s all mental. I knew it. I’m going to start thinking myself younger! And about the floss–this is definitely bad news; I mean, that stuff I don’t get out of my teeth is actually getting into my blood stream and clogging my heart? This is definitely bad news. Next time I see the dentist, I won’t just get the same old talk; this time I’ll get, “You better start flossing or you’re going to have a heart attack!”
Jamie Simmerman 10.14.08 at 3:08 pm
As a nurse, I am glad to see you address blood pressure. Abnormal BP significantly impairs your cognitive processes, zaps your organ reserves, and even affects your energy level.
Thanks for the terrific post!
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Melissa Donovan 10.14.08 at 6:28 pm
I’m all about exercise and positive thinking. As someone who’s young at heart, I would add that sometimes it’s just in the genes
Mare 10.14.08 at 11:12 pm
Hi Oktober Five: You’d think dentists would advertise that fact more, wouldn’t you? Definitely not good marketers
Hi Jamie: I didn’t know you were a nurse. It amazes me that people don’t do simple things such as checking their blood pressure, especially when it’s so important to their health, as you point out.
Hi Melissa: The genes definitely play a major role, but your actions also have a large impact. I’m into exercise and positive thinking too
Avani-Mehta 10.14.08 at 11:19 pm
This is a great list.
15. Stay happy and find something you love.
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Davina 10.15.08 at 2:25 pm
Hi Marelisa. Your dentist sounds wonderful!
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Robin 10.17.08 at 12:16 am
Hi Mare - a greta list. And I think it’s interesting that so many people love life enough to WANT to live longer (I mean, we’d expect your commenters to want to - but the general interest out there)
And congrats on the RSS count!
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Mare 10.17.08 at 10:21 am
Hi Robin: I think it’s great that doctors are discovering more and more how malleable our age really is, not in terms of chronological age, of course, but in terms of how healthy we are and how good we look. And thank you!
Karl Staib - Your Work Happiness Matters 11.13.08 at 9:17 am
I’m trying to do all those things. A lot of the times I don’t always do it, but that’s another story. At least I’m trying.
I’m a huge advocate of flossing. I floss every night before bed and I love it. It’s a massage for my gums. Now I don’t know why I avoided it earlier in life. The habit is with me for the rest of my time on this earth so from here on out I have a 2.6 times more likely chance of living a long life. Yeah!
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Mare 11.13.08 at 10:43 pm
Hi Karl: I don’t exactly enjoy flossing, but I do it every single night anyway, because I know it’s good for my teeth, and now I know it’s also good for my heart