Three Awesome Productivity Tips

by Marelisa · View Comments

productivity tipsIf you run a Google search for  the term “productivity tips” you’ll find everything from “become an early riser” to exercise and get enough sleep, and from develop a method for overcoming procrastination to create a system for tackling every paper that comes across your desk.  From the plethora of productivity tips out there, I’ve chosen the following three to write about today since  adopting these three tips will help move you quickly along the road to becoming awesomely productive.

Productivity Tip One: Create Your Own Planner

We all differ on the degree to which we want or need to structure our lives, ranging from those who plan their day in fifteen minute increments, to those who simply write down on an index card the three most important things they will get done the next day.

In addition, there are methods that emphasize a top-down approach, most notably Stephen Covey’s method, while others emphasize a bottom-up approach as, for example, the method set forth in the book “Getting Things Done”. There’s nothing wrong with mixing and matching elements from each of these methods in order to create a personalized method that works well for you.

This leads us to the conclusion that you’re the best person to create a daily planner for yourself.  So purchase a binder or a notebook and begin finding or creating templates in order to create your very own daily planner. You can find lots of great, free templates at diyplanner.com. In addition, there’s an interesting squidoo lens on creating DIY Planners here.

Here are some more free templates to get you started:

Productivity Tip Two: Master the Art of Saying “No”

Learning to say “no” to others is one of the best things you can do to reclaim your time as your own and to redirect your energy toward the achievement of your goals instead of simply furthering somebody else’s agenda.  In addition, saying “no” will help you reduce the stress created when you over-commit yourself and stretch yourself too thin.  Here are several tips to help you master the art of saying “no”:

  • Ask lots of questions before committing yourself. Make sure that you know exactly what you’re committing yourself to and how much time you’re agreeing to devote to the activity.
  • Is the activity in line with your goals? Will it further one of your goals?
  • Look at your schedule and determine where you’re going to fit in the time to devote to this new activity. If your schedule is full, are you willing to postpone or cancel some other activity in order to fulfill the new activity you’re being asked to commit to? If the answer is “no” then you can’t commit to this new activity because you don’t have the time.
  • Make sure that your schedule includes “me” time, time with your children, time for exercise, and other things that are important but not urgent. That way you won’t be substituting time spent on things that are important to you on the needs and wants of others.
  • If you can’t do something or you simply don’t want to, then just say so. Do not leave others under the false impression that there’s the possibility that you might accede to their wishes by giving a wishy-washy response.
  • Ask for a quid pro quo: “I can help you with this, but I’m going to need your help with this other task.”
  • Put a condition on your help: “I can man the desk for one hour, but no longer than that.”
  • If you’re willing to help and have the time, but you truly despise the task you’re being asked to do, say you’re not willing to perform that task and offer to help with something else instead.
  • If you need a script telling you what to say in different situations where you want to say “no”, read the article “54 Ways to Get Out of Doing Anything You Don’t Want to Do”.

Productivity Tip Three: Act in the Way Most Conducive to Achieving Your Goals

In “Simpleology – The Simple Science of Getting What You Want”, Mark Joyner explains that if you want a drink of water there are many different things that you can do. You can set a glass of water in front of you and you can do any of the following:

  • Plead with the water;
  • Attempt to impress the water by reciting a list of all of your advanced degrees;
  • Yell at the water and try to intimidate it;
  • Pray to the Divinity of your choice and ask that you be given water;
  • Formulate a detailed plan as to how you will get water;
  • Take a seminar or complete an online course on how to get water;
  • And so on.

Another alternative is to simply pick up the glass of water and drink from it.  That is, take direct and purposeful action toward the achievement of your goal.  You’ll notice that out of all of these methods the only one that created the outcome of putting water in your mouth so that you could drink it was the one that involved the simple action of picking up the glass and drinking from it.

Steve Pavlina illustrates this same point in his article “The Most Direct Solution to Any Problem”.  In this article he advises that whenever you have a problem you should ask yourself: “What’s the clearest, most direct path to my goal or the most efficient way to get around an obstacle?” He explains that the direct solution to a problem will often require courage, self-discipline, creativity, or persistence to implement, so people have a tendency to avoid the direct route and, instead, create a circuitous path toward their goals in order to compensate for laziness or timidity.

As an example, if you want to lose weight you need to increase the amount of exercise that you do or decrease your caloric intake.  However, these options require discipline and persistence, so most people won’t follow through.  In addition, if you’re interested in starting a relationship with someone, the most direct route is to simply walk up to them and find out if they’re interested.  This solution requires a lot of courage to overcome the possibility of rejection, but it’s very simple and straightforward.

As a last example, Steve refers to the popular New Age exercise of intending to manifest a blue feather.  Instead of passively waiting for the Universe to bring you a blue feather, why not simply get up and do a Google image search for “blue feather”?  It’s easy, fast, and creates the result you’re looking for.

(“Blue Feather”; courtesy of inge helene)

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  • Marelisa

    Fantastic post today! Ever since I started teaching English as a second language, I've realized just how indirect English speakers are. The Spanish when they want someone to open a window will say "open the window, please" but when an English speaker wants someone to open a window we tend to say "if you don't mind, could you please open the window if it won't bother you - is anyone else too hot? Maybe it's just me, oh never mind."

    I believe the habit flows over into our actions as well, making us seek the indirect route (to sneak up on our goals) instead of taking direct action.

    This week I'm going to redo my sales copy and I'm going to apply the Simpleology approach instead of trying to slowly lead the prospect into buying. And what's the simple way?

    Here's your problem as I perceive it.
    Here's how it affects your life.
    Here's the solution that I offer.
    Here's what it costs.
    Here's the link to buy it.

    Thanks for the reminder!

    Alex Fayle | Someday Syndromes last blog post..The Simple Life: Nicole Stevens Interview
  • Mare
    @Cath: I know what you mean about agreeing to things that end up taking much longer that you thought they would. That's why I now make sure that I know exactly what I'm getting myself into before agreeing to anything.

    @Kelly: If you have a stack of thirty cards, each showing three things you crossed off on each day, you have a system where you can visually see what you've accomplished. And with a Seinfeld calendar you can see the chain of "Xs" as evidence that you worked on your novel every single day :-)
  • Mare

    That's a good idea. I think of what I want to achieve the next day but this doesn't keep you as on target as a list you can cross things off. Thinking about it, I always used a "To Do" list when I was in marketing and consulting, and even teaching. That's what a lesson plan is. Since working and mothering from home I have become system-less, so I do think that is something to rectify because I do have weeks where I feel bad that I haven't seemed to achieve what I wanted to.

    Maybe keeping it simple with a calendar and cards is the best compromise.

    Kelly
  • Hi Mare - thanks for the templates and the great tips. I think I get into problems because I don't ask enough questions before agreeing to do something. Then the thing I thought would take a few minutes winds up involving hours of work.

    Cath Lawsons last blog post..Don’t Add This Poison To Your Business Cocktail
  • Mare
    @Kelly: Maybe you're one of those people who should just get a pack of index cards and every night write down the three most important things you need to get done that day. I would also download the Seinfeld calendar so that you can draw an "X" for each day that you work on your novel.

    @Irene: Ah, there's a method to my madness :-)
  • Hi Marelisa,

    I love these tips and in particular, their sequence. Was it intentional? First I have to 1) plan to gain clarity on what truly matters, so that 2) I'll have a big fat excuse to say "no" to the things that don't matter, and once the plate is clear, 3) I'll just zoom in to the steak! Good stuff.

    Irene | Light Beckonss last blog post..Beverly Takes A Break
  • I am a big believer in numbers 2 and 3 (not that I am always perfect at either), but I really struggle with the whole idea of productivity planners.

    I could probably benefit from some level of productivity plan, but I just find these kinds of systems don't seem to fit with my fly by the seat of your pants personality. I feel hemmed in and restricted, so I rebel and still don't get things done.

    I'm not sure what the answer is here. Try more planners? Set up some more firmly established routines, but don't tell myself it's a plan? Hmm, any thoughts?

    Kelly

    Kelly@SHE-POWERs last blog post..Why Blogging is Like Backpacking
  • Mare
    Hi Natural: I'm glad you found the templates useful. I downloaded the Firefox add-on you suggest here :-)
  • Hey Marelisa, another good one. I can def. use the templates. Right now I have my to-do's on paper, in my head and reminders on my computer. I'm slowly getting myself back together, like when I wasn't all over the place.

    Thanks.

    Check out the reminder add on from FireFox. It's great too.
  • Mare
    Hi Stacey: A writing group sounds great :-)

    I'm going to include a "creativity calendar" in the planner I'm making for myself so that I can cross off each day when I sit down to create. The idea is to create a chain of "X's" that you won't want to break (Seinfeld's idea).

    @Bamboo: I really like that advice too! And we kid ourselves to avoid doing the hard work and because we get scared.
  • I really like the advice of asking oneself what the most direct path is. That's really simple and brilliant.

    We often do spend so much of our time devising diversions, in order to avoid the hard work that would ultimately give us what we seek...

    By framing it in terms of, what's the most direct path - we can't kid ourselves any longer.

    Brilliant.

    Bamboo Forests last blog post..7 Ways to Settle a Dispute
  • I have worked really hard over the past few years to learn to effectively say "no" and sometimes it's just "no for now". It does help. I'm now working on #1 - the planner piece and creating time frames for completing projects.

    I also just created a writing group - we'll meet once a month and hold each other accountable for the writing we all want to accomplish.
  • Mare
    Hi Andre: You know, I just walked to the store and on my way there I thought "I didn't answer Andre's comment". So here it is :-) I thought those three were good, I'm glad you agree. And I see your point that sometimes you may want to add more information if it's someone who's important to you, to make sure they don't feel slighted.
  • Mare
    Hi Mark, Thank you! We're all in danger of falling into a complacent state. I think the trick is to make sure you're always pushing forward.

    Hi Ann: I'm in the process of creating my own planner. I know what you mean about having several goals which all require your time and attention, that's why it's so important to carve out the most direct path to reach one so that you don't waste precious time and resources meandering :-)
  • Mare
    Hi Vered: I think the key is to walk around with your day planner and saying "oh my goodness, I'm just booked solid".

    Hi Avani: You're right, they're funny but unfortunately we do them. You're also right that it's important to learn to ask for help when we're in over our heads. And of course, if you ask of others, you should also expect to give to others. The key is to find the right balance instead of always being on the giving end.
  • Mare
    Hi Carla: I'm glad you liked the templates. I hope you find them useful.

    Ah, the need to find out exactly what's being asked of you before you agree to help. So I guess you're basically going to end up doing the whole project for her. Well, at least you helped me make a point :-)
  • Mare
    Hi MizFit: I know what you mean about the FlyLady. Every time I stop by her site I think: "wow, I need to do this". But I'm putting a day planner together for myself and I'm definitely going to adopt a lot of her suggestions.

    Hi Stacey: Accountability is so important. That's why it's a good idea to announce your goals on your blog so that others hold you accountable.

    Hi Writer Dad: You did send a big "no" last week, and on the flip side you said a big "yes" to yourself :-)
  • Mare
    @Lance: "Just Do It", but make sure you're taking the action that leads you straight to the prize instead of walking around in zig-zags :-) Yes, there's definitely a difference between adequate analysis and analyzing so much that you never get around to doing things or are slow to start. I printed out the photo of the blue feather above and hung it up on my bulletin board so that it reminds me to always ask "what can I do next to move me efficiently toward my goals" instead of just waiting for things to come to me.
  • I finally realized I needed to create my own paper planner, using elements of several different systems and methods. I took the time to really think about what I wanted/needed it to do for me, sketched a few ideas, and then put it together.

    As for #3, I'm struggling with the whole working mom thing . . .I want to make more money, spend more time w/my family and still carve out some "me" time - three goals that often conflict!

    I'm really good at drinking water though . . . :-)
  • If you had to select three, those are the right ones. I didn't know Fly Lady had a kit. Ugh, now I have no excuse to clean house :)

    I find that it's easier for people to swallow conditional statements if you include the obligation that prevents further commitment. For instance, instead of saying, "I can only do X for an hour," you can say, "I'm leaving for Y in an hour, so I can help you until then." People sense the restriction as less arbitrary or contrived.

    The art of say no is definitely the master key to saying yes to the things that matter.
  • Taking action and rolling with it seems to work for me sometimes. Otherwise I might find myself in a complacent state of mind. I like your site!

    Mark Salinass last blog post..Daily Life Challenge
  • Mare, your examples of the way we can try to drink from a glass of water are hilarious. While they do seem crazy over here, sad part is we all do resort to doing something like this in some areas of our life.

    Parallel to master the art of saying no, one needs to master the art of asking as well. The simplest solution at times is to ask someone else for help or guidance, we however hesitate for not so good reasons most of the time.

    Avani-Mehtas last blog post..How To Pick Your First Anger Management Area - Anger Management Series Part IV
  • There's definitely an art to saying "no". I haven't mastered it yet. Especially in person, it's very hard. But I am working on it.

    Vered - MomGrinds last blog post..Saw “Burn After Reading”. Non-Botoxed Actresses. Awesome.
  • I really like the day planner template. Thank you for posting that.

    In terms of saying "no", I recently agreed to help my mother's friend sell her extensive clothing collection (she owns a boutique) on eBay. Come to find out, she knows NOTHING about computers, let alone the internet, let alone eBay. She doesn’t have a digital camera. Everything will take 10x longer than I anticipated. I have a hard time saying no, but I already agreed.

    Carlas last blog post..Alternatives to fabric softeners
  • I have a really hard time saying no. I always want to help. Though I did send a big fat NO to every single one of my clients last week, so apparently I'm approving.

    Writer Dads last blog post..The Rest of the Story: KittyTown and the Quan
  • I'm practicing #3 -- to define my intentions, values, and goals...and then to take action based on my intentions, values and goals. Awareness and keeping myself accountable seem to be key!

    Stacey / Create a Balances last blog post..Practicing Being Selfish = Self Nurturing
  • The flylady has been calling my name for *eons*

    For some reason I've been resisting.

    I need to take the time to figure out WHY.

    MizFits last blog post..Im no Prelutsky (please to insert *sigh*)—yet with the rhyming I love it. I try.
  • The third choice, it reminds me of the Nike slogan - Just Do It. Sometimes we have to stop analyzing and start doing. Analysis and review is not going to get something accomplished. It's going to take action of some sort on our part. I need to remember this one. Sometimes I get into the mode of analyzing - when I should get more quickly to doing. A project I have needs to be accomplished this weekend. I've been spending too much time analyzing how best to do it (it was important to analyze it, but I have reached over-analysis) - and now that means more work this weekend because I didn't just start earlier.

    Lances last blog post..Spread Your Wings and Fly
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