Slow Down – 32 Ways to Start Now

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(“The Happy Snail”; courtesy of ruslou)

1. “Slow” is a state of mind. Compare the following:

Busy v. Engaged
Hurried v. Calm
Stressed v. Tranquil
Putting out Fires v. Prevention
Impatience v. Patience
Quantity v. Quality

2.  The Slow Food Movement essentially challenges each of us to use local ingredients harvested and put together in a socially and environmentally responsible way. Instead of frequenting fast food establishments, give more attention to where your food comes from, take more care in how it is prepared, and be more thoughtful of the time spent enjoying your meals.

Follow the Slow Food Manifesto: “May suitable doses of guaranteed sensual pleasure and slow, long-lasting enjoyment preserve us from the contagion of the multitude who mistake frenzy for efficiency.”

3.  Eat slowly. It takes 20 minutes for our stomach to tell our brains that we are full, and if we eat too fast, we tend to eat more than we need to. Every time that you put food in your mouth, put your fork or other eating utensil down and let go of it. Do not pick it up again until you have thoroughly chewed your food and have swallowed it.

4. Instead of multi-tasking–which is stressful and not very productive–do everything with one-pointed attention. In the words of Buddha: “When you are walking, walk. When you are sitting, sit. Don’t wobble.”

5.  Create your own “Slow Manifesto”.

6.  Get enough sleep. When you’re tired your ability to think and your eye-hand coordination decrease, which means you’re less productive and more likely to make mistakes. In addition, studies show that people who do not get enough sleep are more than twice as likely to die of heart disease.

7. Create a morning ritual that will allow you to begin your day in a calm, unhurried manner, setting the tone for the rest of the day.

8.  Take a hike, whether it’s an overnight trip or a half-day excursion through nature.

9. Live by the motto: “A time for everything and everything in its time”.

10. Prioritize. Instead of trying to do it all decide what are the most important things for you to accomplish.

11. Cultivate an abundance mentality. A lot of our rushing about is caused by the fear that if we don’t hurry up, someone else is going to beat us to what we want and we will have to do without.  If we change our frame of mind from scarcity to the knowledge that there is more than enough for all, we will naturally slow down.

12. Making the time to take care of your body now is a better strategy than waiting to have to take time off to deal with illness.

13.  Spend a day baking pies, tarts, cupcakes, and muffins.

14. When someone is talking to you, give them your full attention. Instead of rehearsing in your head what you’re going to say next, concentrate on what they’re saying. One of the best ways to connect with others is by truly listening to them.

15. Cultivate mindfulness:

“When we do things with only a part of the mind, we are just skimming the surface of life. Nothing sinks in; nothing has real impact. It leads to an empty feeling inside. Unfortunately, it is this very emptiness that drives us to pack in even more, seeking desperately to fill the void in our hearts. What we need to do is just the opposite: to slow down and live completely in the present. Then every moment will be full.” — Eknath Easwaran

16.  Set an egg timer to go off after every forty minutes of sitting at your desk working.  When the timer goes off, get up, stretch, drink water, take a breathing break, and close your eyes for a couple of minutes.

17.  Schedule creativity breaks.  Creativity experts agree that taking time for incubation is a vital step in the creative process. After a period of intense concentration, Albert Einstein would take a nap or find another way to detach from whatever he was working on. He described that during these mental breaks his unconscious mind would go on thinking about the challenge and surprise him with an insight when he least expected it.

18. Take time off for leisure. Carl Honoré, author of the best-selling book In Praise of Slow: How a Worldwide Movement Is Challenging the Cult of Speed, says: “In our workaholic culture, we have lost the art of leisure. We never make time to switch off; to rest and reflect; to play; to do nothing at all. But leisure is not an optional extra; it is an essential part of a life well-lived and a cornerstone of every great civilization.”

19. Read The Importance of Being Lazy: In Praise of Play, Leisure, and Vacations.

20.  Consider using your cellphone only for the reasons it was originally intended: safety, security, and emergencies.

21.  Move at your own rhythm.  We are all familiar with Henry David Thoreau’s famous quote: “If a man does not keep pace with his companions, perhaps it is because he hears a different drummer. Let him step to the music which he hears, however measured or far away.”

22.  Join a civic group devoted to slowing down, such as:

  • The Deceleration of Time, a civic group based Austria.
  • The Art of Slow Living, an Italian civic group.
  • The Long Now Foundation, a group based in San Francisco, California, established to provide an alternative to a “faster/cheaper” mind set and promote “slower/better” thinking.
  • Take Back Your Time, a nonprofit group based in Seattle, Washington, is leading a national campaign to address time famine by using conferences and teach-ins to wean people off their need to be busy.
  • Slow Food USA is a nonprofit group that offers an alternative to fast-food eating and industrial food production. It encourages members to plan communal meals and use farmer’s markets. It has at least 80,000 members in 100 countries.

23.  Become a citizen of Slowplanet, a web site that Carl Honoré and Geir Berthelsen, a Norwegian motivational speaker, have set up together.  Its goal is to be a hub for all things slow, from slow travel to slow shopping to slow design.  They advocate the following:

“Slow is not about doing everything at a snail’s pace; it’s about working, playing and living better by doing everything at the right speed.”

24.  Work smarter, not faster or harder.

25.  Practice random acts of slowness.

26. Join a time bank, such as TimeBanks, USA: For every hour you spend doing something for someone in your community, you earn one Time Dollar. Then you have a Time Dollar to spend on having someone do something for you.

27. The Sloth Club advocates the shift from the culture of ‘more, faster and tougher’ to that of ‘less, slower and non-violent’.

28.  Know when to change gears: when to stop, watch, and listen, and when to shift into action.

29.  Catch the sunset.

30.  Create a ritual for the end of the day so that you go to bed each night in a calm and relaxed state.

31. Simplify your life so that you don’t try to fill your time with more than you can do. Follow my 100 Tips to Simplify Your Life.

32. Slow down to appreciate beauty. In an experiment conducted by the The Washington Post, internationally acclaimed violin virtuoso Joshua Bell held an impromptu concert at a Washington, DC subway station during the middle of the morning rush hour. The performance lasted for 45 minutes, during which 1,097 people passed by one of the finest classical musicians in the world, playing some of the most elegant music ever written, on one of the most valuable violins ever made. Seven people stopped what they were doing to hang around and take in the performance, at least for a minute. Twenty-seven gave money, most of them on the run — for a total of $32 and change. That leaves the 1,070 people who hurried by, completely oblivious. Would you have stopped? You can watch a 2 and a half minute YouTube video of the experiment here.

33. Make a commitment to slow down:

“I hereby pledge to slow down for the benefit of my health, my happiness, my well being, my family, my creativity, my community, and the environment.”

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  • My biggest growth has been with chewing slowly. I know it's a small one, but it's been great. Up until recently I would inhale food like my giant face was a vacuum. But then I noticed my children were doing the same. I take my sweet time now. I get full before I finish, and I actually taste what I'm eating. I need to be better about my sleep. I'm an early to bed, early to rise kind of guy. But lately, I can't shut my brain down, and I'm not sleeping nearly as much as I need to.
  • When we catch ourselves rushing we can see that we are missing out on what we'd be noticing by taking it easy. Like so many things just being more aware allows us to observe and make sounder decisions. This is a beautiful post full of so many wonderful suggestions. The one that has served me very well over the years is your #7 creating a morning ritual. We can set the entire tone of our day simply by intending it.
  • I like all of these, but I'm especially a big believer in #20 - "Consider using your cellphone only for the reasons it was originally intended: safety, security, and emergencies".

    Ido is a big believer in #24: Work smarter, not faster or harder.

    Vereds last blog post..No More Bikini Mishaps (Wordless Wednesday)
  • Mare
    @Writer Dad: If you slow down in even one area that sets the mood, so to speak, so that you can start slowing down in other areas.

    @Tom: I used to start my day by rushing around like crazy. Now I follow my morning ritual and I start off my day in a much more positive mood. And you're right, it does set the tone for the rest of the day.

    @Vered: My father gets upset because my cellphone is usually off and he can't reach me, but I can't stand it when it's constantly going off. It makes me feel imposed upon.
  • 3. Eat slowly. - oh, I am so guilty of not doing this. I am all done my plate and the Urbane Lion and the Little Lion are only half way through. I think to myself "What the heck are they doing?" But really, what am I doing? I know what I'm doing. I am mindlessly putting food into my body for nourishment. I've done it all my life. It's hard habit to break.

    6. Get enough sleep. - got away from this, but it is taking it's toil. Time to get back to a regular bedtime routine.


    12. Making the time to take care of your body - oops, falling off this wagon too! Geepers!

    18. Take time off for leisure. - we are spending Friday night on the boat. No cell phones, no laptops, no obligations. It is required!

    20. Consider using your cellphone only for the reasons it was originally intended - oh, I am good with this one. I use about 5 minutes per month. They tried to give me a work one, but I 'forgot' to keep it charged. They finally gave up and took it back.

    Well, not too bad. Out of you entire list, I have three areas to work on. But thanks for putting them in my face! *smile*

    Urban Panthers last blog post..Who is the Panther anyway?
  • Mare,

    Other than being a "water junkie" and only giving my cell phone number to my children and husband, I WISH (where's Alex when you need him?) that I could do even 3 other things on your list! Even 2...or 1.

    I am a "fast" person, and I know that that's unhealthy. I justify it by saying that "if only I could get everything done, I can take time for myself." But, we both know it NEVER works that way.

    I am going to print your blog - if you don't mind - and try. That's all I can do, right? I feel that I lost so much time to illness that everything needs to be done NOW. But those things are always chores - rarely things that bring me appreciation.

    Thank you - for giving me a start.

    Rita

    Ritas last blog post..The FIRST Time I Almost Got Expelled from College
  • I need to eat slower. Doctors say it's better for digestion. The best part is you can actually taste the food too. My wife is a slow eater and she is always reminding me to slow down. When I listen I eat less and feel more satisfied.

    Karl Staib - Your Work Happiness Matterss last blog post..Notice the Every Day WOW
  • Mare
    @Urban: I have to snack between meals because if I'm really hungry at mealtime I practically swallow my food. Friday on the boat .. . that sounds great. Good strategy with "forgetting" to keep the work cellphone charged :-)

    @Rita: Yes, of course you can print it. I think it's a good idea to just go a little bit slower each day. Small changes accrue overtime.

    @Karl: It's good that you have someone there reminding you to slow down :-)
  • I'm with Vered; nothing makes me feel more harried than a ringing phone. If I need to feel calm, the phone gets turned off.

    I've gotten better at eating slow, but kinda fell off the wagon lately. Having an interesting drink with dinner helps, since I have to slow down to distinguish and enjoy the different tastes.

    I also need to work on walking slowly. It's not like the hurried pace really gets me anywhere much faster. Might as well stop and see who I can see along the way!

    Sara at On Simplicitys last blog post..Five Myths About Simplicity Busted
  • The one that caught my attention first here was #14 - giving your full attention. For work, I carry a PDA, and it is connected to our email system. The other day, I was talking with the lady next to me, when it went off a couple of times. I was getting ready to go home, had to shut down my computer, and finish off a couple of small tasks. I found myself first thinking - I can save some time by looking at these emails while I'm having a conversation. And then, that's exactly what I did. As I was doing it, I thought to myself - how rude. I should be giving my full attention to the person I'm conversing with. That is more important right now. It was definitely a lapse in judgement - and I felt quite bad. And it got me thinking, do I do this almost unconciously at other times? I need to be more aware of being in the moment where I'm at - giving my full attention.

    The Washington Post experiment - interesting. I'm afraid, again like above, I would have failed. Why do we rush by? What is the rush? I don't have the answers to these - but I do know that my life isn't going to come to a grinding halt, or get all messed up, because I'm one minute, or five minutes later to wherever I'm going. This is a real area I need to digest more - and understand myself better. What this makes me think is - think of all the wonderful things we are missing because we are so busy rushing by to get "somewhere". We miss the joy in the journey...

    Lances last blog post..Maintenance, Do You Do It?
  • Hi Marelisa,

    I was reading through your list and started saying,"that's my favorite", "no, that's it", no, it's that one". I couldn't choose just one, but I have learned that multi tasking is so over rated. I also like the one about "connect with others" (give them your complete attention). Getting rest is something I KNOW I have to have, so I do that without question.

    Whew! I feel better now. Thanks!

    Barbara Swaffords last blog post..Casual Friday - Open Mic
  • Hi Mare - I love this list and there's lots of things there I'd not even thought about.

    The weight loss one is so true. I've noticed that extremely obese people eat quickly. By the time that 20 minutes is up - goodness knows how much they manage to devour.
  • Sorry Mare - I meant to say the eat slowly one.

    Cath Lawsons last blog post..Don’t Be Like The Women On The Titanic
  • This so applies to me right now! I feel like all I'm doing is rushing off to get our daughter to school, get the chores done, go to the store, you know - all those everyday things.

    I've been feeling disjointed (there'll be a post coming about that, I'm sure) and I know it's because I haven't been slowing down to take time for me. Or slowing down to read to my son. Or slowing down to color with my daughter.

    Thanks for the reminder to take it slow....

    Kool Aids last blog post..Question of the day
  • Thanks for the reminder. I'm intending to slow down and observe my thoughts but find that I am still in a constant chatter. Geez!

    Eating slowly is a great idea!! I'm always chomping down my food in a hurry.

    Evelyn Lim | Attraction Mind Maps last blog post..How To Build Intuitive Awareness For Inspired Actions
  • Hi there Marelisa - I enjoyed reading this! It was interesting reading about the groups that are devoted to doing things slowly and mindfully - I knew about slow food, but not the others.

    I like to take my time with things, and if my partner and I have had particularly exciting things happen, we always sit around talking about it the next day (or two) instead of rushing on to the next thing.

    Cheers!

    Robins last blog post..Letting Creativity Just Slip In
  • What a great list Marelisa! For the past 2 weeks, I felt like an ant stranded on a hot pot. I was running everywhere and getting burnt at the same time! Time to chill ... eating slowly has got to be my biggest challenge for now.

    Irene | Light Beckonss last blog post..Gifted Children
  • Mare
    @Sara: My daily slow exercises are meditation and walking to and from the gym making sure to pay attention to everything and everyone as I go along.

    @Lance: Do you know what really annoys me? When I'm talking to someone, their cellphone rings, and they interrupt the conversation to start talking on the phone. I feel like telling them: "We were in the middle of a conversation . . . hello . .. !" I would like to think that I would have stopped to listen to Joshua Bell, but I guess we won't know for sure until the Washington Post conducts another experiment and I'm one of the people who happens to walk by :-)

    @Barbara: People who multi-task try to do about 5 things at once, and they usually end up doing a bad job of all 5 of them.

    @Cath: If you're eating fast you can certainly get down a whole lot of food in 20 minutes :-)
  • Mare
    @Kool Aid: That's one of the things that Carl Honoré is always talking about - children move at their own pace and they don't understand what all of the hurrying is about.

    @Evelyn: To me speed is mass production, items that break easily, not getting everything you can out of an experience because you're already thinking of the next thing you're going to do, and so on. Slow is more sensuous and more aesthetics-oriented.

    @Irene: "an ant stranded on a hot pot" LOL! Is that like jumping around as if you're feet are burning up :-) I'm starting to sit down at the table with an egg-timer to make sure it takes me at least 15 minutes to eat my meals. Sometimes I think my egg timer is the most important thing I own.
  • Multi-tasking is a something I need to work on. Sometimes it's hard to just sit when there's laundry to fold or clothes to hang up. You have the mentality of always wanting to kill two birds with one stone.

    #17 is great. Music helps me a lot or just reading a book.

    Naturals last blog post..Traffic: Flaw in Design or Drivers?
  • Mare
    @Natural: Well, I think that there are tasks that lend themselves to "killing two birds with one stone", as you say. The problem is when people answer e-mails, while on the phone, while talking to someone who's sitting in their office, while watching the news on a TV playing in the background (and yes, there are people who do this).

    I schedule meditation, sudoku, and jigsaw puzzle breaks into my day. And when I learn to juggle I'm scheduling juggling breaks in there as well :-)
  • Mare
    @Robin: Your comment got stuck in the filter for some reason, but I've rescued it! I think there's going to be a serious backlash against the "full steam ahead" mentality because of what we're doing to the environment and what that kind of lifestyle does to our health. I think it's great that you and Frank take things slow :-)
  • Thanks for rescuing me!

    Robins last blog post..Letting Creativity Just Slip In
  • I just realised - my browser auto-filled a non-existent email - shan't happen again! (delete this if you like Mare!)

    Robins last blog post..Letting Creativity Just Slip In
  • Love this post as I definitely run my life on fast forward. It's always like I am busy filling up my time so I don't have to be, or just plain old running away from something.

    Having my son 4 years ago really forced me to slow down and I am still on the roller coaster ride that has come from these changes. There is a cost to slowing down. We are left more with ourselves and we start to feel things we have spent a lot of years avoiding. As I have slowed down the pace of my life, my worrying has spiraled as I try to fill my mind with busyness to keep the anxiety about the changes within me at bay.

    I know the importance of all the things on this list and I'm trying to work on practising some of them (3, 10, 11, 12 32) but I have to say I don't find it easy.

    You do inspire me to keep trying though, Mare. And for that I thank you. I imagine you as this very zen like successful woman. Is that what you're really like?

    I'd love to see you do the meme that Urban Panther and I have done so we could find out more about you.

    Kelly :)
  • Well, if you don't make the commitment to slow down, the every strategy will not work. The best advice is eating slowly, especially if you're eating with the family.

    I just don't understand how we really don't know how to slow down. Think about this, the beauty of nature happened slowly, the best relationships usually happened in a slower pace. Why can't we take nature's examples? Why must we hurry all the time?

    Chriss last blog post..To Blog Or Not To Blog
  • Mare
    Hi Kelly: You were my comment #1000! Your prize is a round of applause ///clap, clap, clap\\\.

    Well, I do have un-Buddha-like moments (I saw that phrase on a cup and I love it :-) ), but I am seeking to have a tranquil and serene life. You know, when I read Panther's meme I thought to myself: I wrote about my accomplishments while she wrote about what she's like. Well, something to consider :-)
  • Mare
    @Chris: Exactly, nature takes it time. We rush around like the sky's about to fall. I guess that's why spending time in nature is one of the best ways to slow down.
  • I think slow eating is really a great practice to cultivate. And it will lend itself to enjoying ones food more.

    This is something, though I think I do alright, I'd like to continue to focus on.

    Bamboo Forests last blog post..7 Weirdest Olympic Sports
  • Mare
    @Bamboo: I guess there's a lot of people out there gobbling their food because almost everyone has mentioned "slow eating" in their comments :-)
  • Wholeheartedly agreed - thank you Mare!

    Slow down. Quality over quantity. This is my new daily mantra.

    Al at 7Ps last blog post..The Hero with a Thousand Jobs
  • Mare
    @Al: That's a great mantra!
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