100 Tips to Simplify Your Life

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“With a few flowers in my garden, half a dozen pictures and some books, I live without envy.”

~Lope de Vega

1. Follow Occam’s razor: “All things being equal, the simplest solution is the best.”

2. Surround yourself with beauty.

3. Declutter and organize: set up your space to support the things you’ve identified as important.

4. Don’t spend time with toxic people who drain your energy and vitality.

5. Spend time in the unhurried contemplation of nature’s beauty.

6. Let go of a viewpoint or opinion you’ve been passionately holding which no longer serves you well.

7. Plant your own herbs; consider starting off with basil, chives, parsley, and mint.

8. Identify what’s important to you; choose your priorities.

9. Drop activities that don’t bring you joy and don’t move you closer to your dreams.

10. Spend time with beloved friends.

11. Write down the steps you follow to complete each task you perform on a regular basis and find a way to streamline and simplify the process.

12. Create rituals, routines, and traditions.

13. Be spontaneous.

14. Buy organic and/or local food whenever you can.

15. Find a sport or physical activity you enjoy and engage in it often.

16. Meditate.

17. Follow your intuition. Listen to your inner voice. Check in with yourself often.

18. Lie down on the grass.

19. Slow down.

20. Stop struggling.

21. Let go of dreams others have for you that are not aligned with your own dreams.

22. Release the past.

23. Forgive; grudges are poison and take up precious space in your mind, let them go.

24. Follow a four-year old around and do everything he does.

25. Walk everywhere you can, or ride your bike.

26. Reconsider all subscriptions to newspapers, magazines, blogs, and newsletters. (Don’t even think of unsubscribing from this blog :-) ).

27. Cancel all but one or two credit cards.

28. Follow Parkinson’s law: set time limits for each task and stick to the time limit.

29. Open the windows and let in fresh air.

30. Take up yoga.

31. Concentrate on your breath.

32. Live within your means.

33. Strike a work-life balance that creates harmony in your life.

34. Get enough sleep.

35. Do one thing at a time, and do everything with presence of mind.

“While washing the dishes one should only be washing the dishes, which means that while washing the dishes one should be completely aware of the fact that one is washing the dishes. At first glance, that might seem a little silly: why put so much stress on a simple thing? But that’s precisely the point. The fact that I am standing there and washing the dishes is a wondrous reality. I’m being completely myself, following my breath, conscious of my presence, and conscious of my thoughts and actions. There’s no way I can be tossed around mindlessly like a bottle slapped here and there on the waves.”

- Thich Nat Hahn

36. Laugh often.

37. Don’t worry about pleasing everyone.

38. Avoid unnecessary conflict.

39. Clear out psychic clutter such as fear, worry, anger, resentment, and anxiety.

40. Learn to do something beautiful with your hands, whether it’s pottery, drawing, knitting, cooking, and so on.

41. Give your hand-made creations as gifts.

42. Make a list of small things that annoy you such as the leaky faucet in the bathroom, the closet door coming off its hinge, and the burned light bulb in the closet. Get these things fixed.

43. Learn to say no.

44. Figure out what simplicity means to you: is it doing your grocery shopping online or taking time out to go to the farmers’ market and hand-picking fresh produce? Is it drying your clothes in the drier so that it’s quick and easy or air-drying your clothes to save on electricity? There’s no wrong answer here, it depends on your preference.

45. Delegate.

46. Pay someone to do the things you don’t enjoy, such as cutting the grass or raking the leaves.

47. Create a menu of a few healthy meals that you enjoy and eat those on a regular basis.

48. Run errands in batch.

49. Make it a top priority to find fulfilling work.

50. Create a list of simple pleasures and ways to celebrate life and make sure you engage in these often.

51. Take a notebook with you everywhere in order to keep your mind decluttered. Record everything, your thoughts, ideas, to-do list, and so on, so that it’s safely stored in one place—out of your head—where you can decide what to do with it later.

52. Keep a master list of to-do items, cut them down into small chunks, and schedule the small chunks into your day planner.

53. Be assertive. If there’s something you need to say to someone find them and voice your concerns in a calm and direct manner. Improving your communication skills will go a long way toward simplifying your life.

54. Have a hobby that gives you the experience of peace and quiet.

55. Go on a spending fast.

56. Become an early riser.

57. Hold hands with your significant other and go for a walk.

58. Decide what you want. Nothing complicates life as much as having vague longings and desires.

59. Go with the flow. However, in matters of principle, stand like a rock.

60. Instead of carbonated drinks, drink water.

61. Come up with your own definition of success; make sure it encourages you to strive to reach your authentic desires and at the same time allows you to enjoy the journey. Here’s Christopher Morley’s definition of success: “There is only one success. To be able to spend your life in your own way.”

62. Stop comparing yourself to others.

63. Be fair. Be honest. Be trustworthy. Be generous. Respect others.

64. Keep perspective.

65. Bring reusable bags–canvas bags–to all markets and stores.

66. Unplug the toaster, the coffee maker, the stereo, the television, and so on from the wall when not in use. It is estimated that 8 – 10% of the total electricity used in your home is due to appliances left on standby.

67. Switch off lights when a room is not in use

68. Take shorter showers, and turn off the water when you’re brushing your teeth or shaving.

69. Opt for quality over quantity in everything you buy.

70. Don’t bite off more than you can chew.

71. Develop positive habits, such as getting regular exercise and saving 10% of what you earn.

72.  Drop two negative habits, such as smoking and watching too much television.

73. Identify the one thing you want to be known for, your magnum opus.

74. Identify the four or five most important things in your life. For example, Leo Babauta from zenhabits.net has identified his family, running, writing, and reading as the four most important things in his life.

75. Make a list of all of your commitments, social obligations, and the organizations you belong to. Now take a red pen and cross out anything that does not truly bring you joy or help move you along the path to achieving your main life goals.

76.  Clear out your email inbox.

77. Have a simple filing system.

78. Pay your bills online.

79. Stop trying to change people.

80. Get the book “Speed Cleaning” by Jeff Campbell and the Clean Team.

81.  Carry a smaller wallet or purse.

82.  Plan time for a vacation every year.

83.  Tackle one goal at a time, instead of trying to pursue many things at once.

84.  Take a moment each day to count your blessings and be grateful for everything that you have.

85. Let go of the myth of perfection.

86.  Start small.  For example, if you’re out of shape and want to start exercising, don’t do 100 sit ups.  You’ll just be incredibly sore the next day, which will decrease the chances that you’ll want to do sit ups again.  Start with 5 sit ups and work your way up, slowly.

87.  Share, trade and swap with your neighbors.  If there are tools you won’t be using often, make a deal with your neighbor that you’ll buy one kind of tool, they buy another, and then you’ll share them.

88.  Switch back to pen and paper. In David Allen’s own words: ‘The simpler and the faster you can make simple lists and access them, the better. Whatever any applications do that support that, I go “that’s great,” but quite frankly it’s hard to beat just paper and pencil.’

89.  Remember the idiom: “An ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure.”  Get regular medical checkups, go to the dentist to get your teeth cleaned every six months, take your car in for regularly scheduled tune ups, and so on.

90.  Keep items that you use frequently within easy reach.

91.  Record your favorite television shows.  Instead of having your schedule revolve around them, record them so that you can watch them at your convenience.

92.  Instead of having tons of items in one incredibly long to-do list, separate projects from tasks.  Projects represent high level outcomes, while tasks are the individual action steps that need to be taken to complete each project.

93. Let yourself be yourself.

94.  Live by the mantra: a place for everything and everything in its place.

95. Thorstein Veblen introduced the idea of “conspicuous consumption” in his 1899 book “The Theory of the Leisure Class”. To illustrate conspicuous consumption, Veblen uses the example of a man who parades down Main Street in stainless linen with a superfluous walking stick. These objects are evidence of leisure, meant to impress an audience of strangers; it’s status-oriented one-man-ship, or keeping up with the Joneses. Instead of using goods to show status, acquire goods for the genuine enjoyment of the thing itself.

96. Find a look that suits you and stick to it.

97. Simplicity doesn’t mean going without, it means taking the time and making the effort to decide who you are and what you really want, what’s most important to you, and what you want your life to look like, so that everything in your home and in your life is a reflection of your authentic self.

98. Clean out the old. Get rid of anything that reminds you of a person or time in your life that brings up unhappy memories.

99. Eat with awareness.

100. Take no more than you need.

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  • Bastus
    Thanks, very interesting
  • Marat_Kh
    Nice post.Thanks.
  • Mare
    @Ribeezie: I can't tell you who said it but I've heard it too. And I agree that it's not a good idea to focus on the past. Why would you pollute your present with all of its potential by thinking of something negative that happened in the past?
  • I especially resonate with #4 & #22. I believe that "you are the company you keep." (I'm quoting someone here but can't remember who..any idea?) And, you have to can't spend life dwelling on the past because you can't change anything about it. But you can take a stand today and work on shaping tomorrow!

    Ribeezies last blog post..Quote of the Day: Keep it simple...
  • Mare
    Hi Rita: Thank you, and I like how you summarize it: "learn to use the existing 24 [hours] more wisely - and more pleasurably!"

    Please do come back, you're always welcomed here :-)
  • Mare,

    As a first time commenter on your blog, I must say that this list is a phenomenon unto itself! (And I don't know if I've seen Thorstein Veblen's name properly credited since college!)

    In re-re-reading your list, it appears to me that my #1 priority rings through on SO MANY of your suggestions, and it has taken me a LONG time to learn: Stop looking for the 25th hour in a day. No matter How much you look or HOW hard you look, you will NEVER find it. Instead, learn to use the existing 24 more wisely - and more pleasurably!

    Hope you don't mind...but I'll be back!

    Rita

    Ritas last blog post..Second “Reader’s Choice” Blog – My 10 Favorite Books
  • Mare
    Hi Sara: I'm glad you liked it :-) Simplicity is one of those areas where you often get contradictory advice. For example: do things by hand v. shop for everything because it takes less time. So in the end all you can do is decide what it means to you and go with it.
  • Mare,

    You kick a ridiculous amount of ass! This is incredible. I love #44, "Figure out what simplicity means to you." That's really the bottom line, isn't it?

    This is a post I'll be able to come back to again and again and keep picking up more.

    Sara at On Simplicitys last blog post..The Only Three Things You’d Want on a Desert Island
  • Mare
    Hi Karl: I've been to Atlantic City but never to Vegas. I would like to spend a weekend there sometime.

    I have a window sill filled with flowers which are always in bloom (they're called chavelitas in Spanish); they're pink, white, and purple. I also have white roses. To top it all of I have a great view of the Bay of Panama from my window. So I also surround myself with beauty.
  • I try to surround myself with beauty by looking for the beauty in every place that I am. I was in Vegas this past week and my first reaction was to judge. I couldn't believe the opulence and I was supporting it. Then I began to step back and just watch the people, flashing lights, and free shows and appreciated the splendor.

    It took a little work, but Vegas became one beautiful place that I hope to visit again.

    Karl Staib - Your Work Happiness Matterss last blog post..Personal Development for Smart People
  • Mare
    Hi Carole, that's a great approach. About a year and a half ago I moved from one apartment in my building to a smaller apartment in the same building. It's amazing how much stuff I got rid of and I didn't miss any of it even for a minute.
  • Hi Marelisa,

    Great article. Copngratulations. Lots of detail and awesome ideas.

    At the beginning of the year I pretended that we were moving overseas and simplified so much in my life. My theory was if I only had two weeks to move what would I need to eliminate or simplify.

    Carole Fogartys last blog post..15 Clever Things To Know About Your Breathing:
  • Mare
    @Akemi: I guess it's "ambitious simplicity" :-)

    @Vered: Writing this post helped to give me more insight about what I want this blog to be about. Thank you for your kind words.
  • Marelisa, you are amazing.

    This post is just so thoughtful and full of thought.

    My favorite is #4: Don’t spend time with toxic people who drain your energy and vitality. I am learning to stay away from toxic people. It's made a big change in the quality of my life.

    Heading over to Sara's blog now. What a beautiful idea - sharing a blog post with a friend!

    Vereds last blog post..So, Another Guest Post
  • Wow . . . you are certainly ambitious while being simple.
    I think I'd go easy and simply try one of your tips at a time ;)

    Akemi - Yes to Mes last blog post..Gratitude Friday, Week 8, Gratitude And The Surprise Present I Got
  • Mare
    @Bamboo: Isn't there a saying that if you're dissatisfied with a little you'll still be dissatisfied with a lot? I think that the first step toward both simplicity and abundance is acknowledging what you already have.

    @Avani: Well, I thought about how to best handle this and I figured that an addition to the 30 Sara already had would be good (about ten of the ones in Sara's list were on my originally list, so I just took those out).
  • Mare
    @Ishani Mitra. I agree that outsourcing repetitive tasks is one way to bring simplicity into your life.

    @Chris: We have to do what we can within our budget. I have someone come in to clean my apartment because here in Central America that's not expensive and it's something I really don't like doing.

    @Urban Panther: I was also bad at pushing emotional vampires out of my life, but now I am very careful as to who I let into my life and I don't have room for people who are just out to suck others dry.

    @Urbane Lion: That would be interesting experiment: rate your quality of life, apply one item from the list, three weeks later rate your quality of life again :-)
  • Hey ... I am glad you published this article. I thought you cancelled the idea of publishing it soon since Sara published hers. This too is an awesome list of ideas. Now I get to pick from 100 :) Could things get better than this :)

    Avani-Mehtas last blog post..Are You Looking For Super Power ?
  • A great list.

    "At the same time, simplicity is closely related to gratitude, that is, to appreciating what you have, instead of feeling dissatisfied because of all the things you want but cannot yet have."

    I really like this definition of simplicity. A great way to be.

    Bamboo Forests last blog post..11 Requirements to be a Mad Scientist
  • Like I've said before, the you can never relive the present moment. Make sure you enjoy it to the fullest. Thanks for the words of wisdom. Even applying just one of those steps will make a noticeable difference in your quality of life. #4, 36 and 43 are among my favorites.
  • Excellent tying together of the pieces. I like this: acquiring goods for the genuine enjoyment of the thing itself. Be it food, clothes, or objet d'art, I really try to ask myself if it is going to give me genuine enjoyment. I am also very partial to this: Don’t spend time with toxic people who drain your energy and vitality. I used to think I was being rude by cutting people out of my life. Now I know I am being healthy by doing so. My daughter calls people like this Emotional Energy Vampires. She is absolutely correct. I cannot help them, and I cannot change them, and I sure don't need them. Sounds harsh, but it is critical for my emotional energy.

    Urban Panthers last blog post..So, you want to online date
  • Mare,

    I love to buy organic and local food but they're quite pricey. I know in the long run it will be beneficial but my tight budget can't hack it.

    Although, I like the idea of paying someone to the things I don't want to do. It certainly makes everything easier.

    chriss last blog post..A Meaningful Life
  • Great post!! Among other things work life balance truly is becoming difficult to attain for most of us. Outsourcing personal chores does go a long way in maintaining a healthy work life balance. An interesting article on personalised outsourcing here

    Ishani Mitras last blog post..Work Smart Not Hard: 5 Reasons Why Part-Time Virtual Assistance is for You
  • Mare
    @Tom: I completely agree, #58 is so important. A lot of the time people don't know why they feel dissatisfied, and because they haven't identified what they truly want.
  • Mare
    @Lance: I think that the only way to truly enjoy life is by slowing down and learning to savor each moment. Recently I got rid of a whole bunch of clothes and now it's so much easier to get ready in the morning. Also, I think I look better because now I'm always wearing one of my best pieces (even if I do wear them more often).

    @Natural: I had a slide show of how in Sweden they really apply the concept of "slow down" and as a result they have a high quality of life. I wonder if I can find it so I can link to it here. I'm going to go look.
  • If I had to pick one of your seventy that would make the most difference for the most people, hands down it's this one.

    58. Decide what you want. Nothing complicates life as much as having vague longings and desires.

    Tom Volkar / Delightful Works last blog post..Seize the Freedom of Self-Employment
  • I'll be doing 19 and 36 is a favorite of mine..best of all most of this stuff is "free".
  • What a wonderful list Marelisa.

    After just getting back from vacation, I can sincerely say that #19 (Slow Down) really came to the forefront for me. And it a great way. It's so refreshing to slow down and just enjoy the moment, without thinking of what else is going on, or needs to be done. I also really like (well, I really like them all!) #69 (quality over quantity). This one is one I'm working on, but as I go along I'm really realizing that quality is so much more important.

    Lances last blog post..We Are A Motley Crew
  • Mare
    @Ann: Toxic people are so difficult to handle. But you know, life's too short to spend it surrounded by people who suck your energy. Good luck Ann!
  • Mare
    @Barbara: I want to learn to do something beautiful with my hands (#40). I've been wanting to learn to create mandalas for the longest time.

    @Laurie: I try to think of it this way: if you say "yes" to someone and commit yourself to doing something you don't want to do, you're saying "no" to yourself since now you won't have time to do something that's important to you. I'm glad you enjoyed the article :-)

    @MizFit: Yeah, I'm thinking of visiting my sister and following my three old nephew around.

    @Emily: Thank you Emily. My notebook goes with me everywhere.
  • I'm working on #4 right now in a particular relationship and it's so hard, as this is someone I've known forever and the bonds are strong. Thanks for the reminder that I need to surround myself with supportive, loving people!

    Ann at One Bag Nations last blog post..Declutter Your Cooking with Simple Food
  • Mare
    @Writer Dad: Oh, the circus!

    I know what you mean since that's just what I was thinking last night as I was writing this. I have articles in this blog on being grateful all the time for all the good in your life, and at the same time I have articles encouraging people to make lists of all the things they want. I think that you can be happy, grateful, and content with what you have, while at the same time realizing that life has a lot to offer which you haven't experienced, and making plans to move in the direction of new experiences that are in line with who you truly are. I'm glad my article helped.
  • Great list, Marelisa! 51 is key for me :)

    Emilys last blog post..A Wedding Quilt
  • Im gonna do #24 all day---but with a 2.5 yo.

    and it's so true.

    MizFits last blog post..Link Love.
  • What a wonderful post! I started noting down the points I liked, then I ran out of space - I liked too many!

    Number 43, saying no, is what I'm working on right now. It's been a challenge for me for years and I'm now at the point that either I say no, or I spend waaay too much time doing things for other people instead of taking time for myself and doing all the things that I'd like to do.

    Thanks for the post - I really enjoyed it.

    Laurie | Express Yourself to Successs last blog post..Say No Series - Post II: The Making of No
  • Hi Marelisa,

    My favorite is #8 - priorities are so important. Keeping them in order is key.

    I love how you're adding Sara's 30 to your 70. What a great idea.

    Barbara Swaffords last blog post..FEFF - Feeling The Joy
  • My wife and I were driving home from the circus tonight. The kids had fallen asleep and we were complaining about our neighborhood (the graffiti's gotten really bad the last few weeks).

    I said, "It's okay honey, we'll get out of here soon."

    She said, "I just want to be humble and love what I have."

    Me: "It's okay to be humble, and still want something a little better."
    Her: "We should be grateful for what we have."
    Me: "Yeah Sweetie, but we can still want something more."
    Her: "We should be grateful for what we have. It's a lot more than what a lot of people have.

    It went on from there. Then we came home to your post.
    Thanks.

    Writer Dads last blog post..I’m in My Thirties, Why Am I on Restriction?
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