Your Anti-Career Guide – A Holistic Approach to Discovering Your Life’s Work

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motivationalDissatisfaction with the cubicle and the nine-to-five job seems to have become the norm. Books promising freedom from the shackles of corporate life, such as The Anti 9-to-5 Guide, The 4-Hour Workweek, and Your Portable Empire: How to Make Money Anywhere While Doing What You Love, fly off the virtual bookshelves on Amazon.com.  Bloggers write articles with titles such as the following:  “6 Keys for Getting Paid for Being You, an Anti-Career Guide”.

People long for work that satisfies them, that they’re passionate about, and that brings them joy. Work is no longer merely a means for survival, but a way to express who we are and to make a contribution to our community, our society, and the world.

A while back I purchased an audio program called The Ultimate Anti-Career Guide: The Inner Path to Finding Your Work in the World by a Vassar College professor named Rick Jarow. In the program Jarow explains that “your vocation . . . is a pure expression of your life force.”

Jarow teaches people to develop their life’s work from a holistic perspective by affirming their uniqueness and keeping the channel open. That is, our conscious mind simply has to move in harmony with the energetic flow from the life force.

Dancers seem to have an innate sense of this–or at least the great ones do—, as is illustrated in the following quote by Isadora Duncan: “All I’ve ever done is to express the truth of my being in gesture and movement.”

Open the Channel

What you are truly meant to do is not something that you can figure out with practical, analytical, linear, left-brained thinking, such as by creating an inventory of your skills.  It’s something that is revealed to you, slowly, step-by step, while the mind is tranquil, neither resisting nor avoiding, and when you’re still, and letting life flow.

It unfolds, like a tree from a seed.  Your task is to get out of the way, to keep the channel open, and to work in cooperation with the deepest forces of life.  In addition, when you move toward your destiny, there are forces that will embrace you and help you along the path.

Martha Graham was an American dancer and choreographer regarded as one of the most important pioneers of modern dance.  Rick Jarow begins his ultimate anti-career guide with the following quote from Graham:

“There is a vitality, a life force, a quickening that is translated through you into action, and because there is only one of you in all time, this expression is unique. If you block it, it will never exist through any other medium…. It will be lost…. The world will never have it. It is not your business to determine how good it is, nor how it compares to other expressions. It is your business to keep it yours clearly and directly, to keep the channel open.”

We are Each a Unique Expression

We each have a unique blueprint for our destiny that is encoded within our bodies. More specifically, Jarow explains that this blueprint is stored in the body’s chakra system, the seven centers that govern the flow of life force through the body.  Below you’ll find an explanation of the chakras and how each one affects your life’s work.

The First Chakra. Located at the base of the spine, the first chakra is associated with the color red.   It is the energetic connection you make with the life force.  This chakra is related to your ability to survive and it’s where issues of scarcity versus abundance reside.  Jarow explains that a career built on scarcity–a sense of not having enough, of not having roots–will be detrimental to your being.  Therefore, the first thing you need to work on is grounding yourself and connecting with the life force.

The Second Chakra.  This chakra is orange and it is the area associated with feeling and emotions.  It’s located in the lower abdomen.  Your life’s work is ignited through passion, through what really disturbs you or affects you.  Any genuine feeling–including joy, anger, or sadness–can be a fuel to move you toward the work you were born to do.

The Third Chakra. This is the solar plexus or the center of action.  Here is where you make sure that what you focus on and what you put your attention on is in line with what you want.  The third chakra is where dreams and fantasies move into action.   By aligning our energy (first chakra), our passion (second chakra), and our focus (third chakra), we are able to move an idea, product, or service into visible manifestation.

The Fourth Chakra. This chakra is located in the center of the chest and it’s the color green.  This is where our individual focus aligns with our sense of community.  That is, this is where “me” turns into “us”.  From this chakra you ask the questions: How can I make a contribution to my community?  How can I help sustain the generations that follow?  Your community is the group of like-minded people who resonate with your vibration; and another name for a community is “a market”.

The Fifth Chakra. This chakra is blue and it’s in the throat. It is the space in which the other elements move and configurate.  This is where you give voice to your thoughts; it’s where your imaginative faculty aligns with your sense of abundance and creates new images and new ideas.

The Sixth Chakra.  The sixth chakra is in the forehead and it is the color indigo.  It is both the intuitive center and the command center.  Your life’s work is basically bringing your intuition or your inspiration into the marketplace.  It is your task to open yourself to the unknown and bring it down into the known.  Here the creative process is not guided simply by our imagination, but by something much larger.

The Seventh Chakra. Some say it’s violet-colored, while others say it looks like a rainbow.  It’s located above your head.  Here is the integration of work and play; the place where your life becomes art.  At the seventh chakra our life becomes an integrative dance with divine energy; our life’s work and the transformation of consciousness become one.

Conclusion

If we open up to our vitality–and follow the blueprint encoded in our bodies–, this will open the creative power that will manifest our work in this world.  Ignite  your life’s work through passion and by letting the life force guide you.

“A song vibrates through my spirit with words of love, compassion and peace. While I dance I cannot judge, I cannot hate, I cannot separate myself from life. That is why I dance.” — anonymous

(“Prix de Lausanne ’07″; courtesy of Shabok)

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  • Mare
    @Grace: Actually, I think that our realization of what we really need to feel fulfill evolves over time. And you're right that you can't really tell your children what to do, you can just share your own experience and let them come to their own conclusions :-)
  • I think at different points in life, folks have need of differing anti-career guides? I know I struggle NOT to tell my children what to do--because I was busy working 90 hours a week building a career at their age--and they can't understand where I am, sometimes, at mine! G.

    Graces last blog post..What you don’t know about charities could cost you money
  • Mare
    Hi Sunzi: You know, although I love to read and there are many books I've read that are filled with great value, what has helped me when I've gone through rough patches are the Silva Life System and the Sedona Method. The first teaches you to slow down your brain waves to the alpha level brain frequency--which is associated with meditation--and is very calming and relaxing. It also teaches you a visualization method so you can start thinking of what you would like your life to look like and begin to take focused action in that direction.

    The Sedona Method helps you to release negative emotions which often accompany any loss, such as the end of a relationship or changing jobs.

    Thank you for stopping by my blog and I hope that you'll be back often. All the best, Marelisa
  • Sunzi
    I am going through a tough patch in my life, ended a 3 year relationship, laid off on my previous job which I love a lot, even though I managed to find a new job, which is nothing close to what I enjoy doing, after reading through your website, it brought some light and perspective into how I should be dealing with this tough patch. appreciate if you could recommend me more reading materials..
  • This is such beautifully profound writing. I'm sorry to come late to the party. I just subscribed so I don't miss any more of your gems.

    Ive read Martha Graham on this subject before. of course for dancers, singers, artists and other creative types the talent is bubbling about and can't wait to surface. In my working coaching those who are wanting to find blissful work I've found that for most of us our bliss much more deeply buried.

    But I agree that it's there for all. I wonder if greater focus on the chakras might not nudge it out? How's this working for you Marelisa?

    Tom Volkar / Delightful Works last blog post..Wildness
  • Mare
    @Vered: It's never too late :-)

    @Davina: From what I've read Martha Graham was a remarkable woman (and at a time when it was very difficult for women to be remarkable).
  • Hi Marelisa.

    I enjoyed the quote from Martha Graham very much. Thanks for sharing!

    Davinas last blog post..The Beauty Path
  • My mom wanted me to be an attorney so I went to law school. I liked law school well enough, but I was miserable as a lawyer. I should have read this post 15 years ago. :)

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  • @Marelisa, Sitting quietly is a different kind of connection for me. When I sit, I am focused, but when I'm moving, I'm more - I don't know - integrated? merged? It's like I'm inside the experience. Hmm, hard to explain the difference. I'll have to think on it some more.

    Melissa Donovans last blog post..When it All Comes Crashing Down
  • Mare
    @Sara: It is a balancing act between reflection and action.

    @Melissa: Thank you! People tend to think of sitting quietly and concentrating on the breath as the best way to connect to the universe, but for a lot of people mindful movement is the key.
  • Marelisa, I'm loving your blog. Dancing and chakras, oh yeah! I can't think of anything that makes me feel more connected to the universe and to myself than the simple act of dancing.
  • For me, I think there's a balance between letting life find me and going out and actively seeking (discovering skills and aptitudes).

    Of course, part of it is impatience. I'm scared to find something I truly love and go, "Oh crap! I could've been doing this *years* ago!"

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  • Mare
    @Evelyn: I'm glad you found the information on chakras useful :-) If you press the little orange RSS button at the top right-hand corner, one of the options that appears is: "Get Abundance Blog at Marelisa-Online delivered by email". Let me know if you have any problems.

    @Robin: Isn't that a beautiful quote? And opening the channel is so important.

    @Al: Either one is fine :-) I think chakras are fascinating as well. One of the best things we can do for ourselves is making sure that our chakras are clear.
  • Hi Marelisa (or do you prefer Mare?),

    The concept of chakras always fascinated me. This was a very good explanation.

    Al at 7Ps last blog post..Which Superhero Blockbuster Movie Are You?
  • Hi Marelisa - lovely article. I especially like your writing about opening the channel - and I love the quote from Martha Graham. I dropped the working-for-income thing some time ago, and it has worked out well for me.

    Robins last blog post..Is The World Getting Better or Worse?
  • Hi Marelisa, thanks for posting a great intro to chakras. I've been wanting to read some literature about them and it's timely that I came upon your post.

    Any possibily of offering the option of having subscription to feeds via email? I would love to subscribe to your post but realised that you don't provide this option.

    Thanks,
    Evelyn

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  • Mare
    @Bamboo: I think it's a process. I agree that you should start by being grateful for what you have, and that includes your current job, whatever that may be. At the same time, I think we should open ourselves up to allowing our lives to get better and better. I think if we follow this approach eventually we can all find our life's work.
  • You have good pointers here. I also think, though, that one must find satisfaction in whatever they are doing. If not, they will always be miserable, and that's no way to be.

    Ideally however, we find the job that truly resonates with us. But if we don't, let's still be happy with where we are.

    Bamboo Forests last blog post..Be Embarrassed about Nothing
  • Mare
    @Ann: I can see where someone would become very wealthy and then live off of passive and investment income while they start a non-profit organization and devote themselves to a cause that is dear to their heart. So I agree that our money doesn't necessarily have to come from our life's work.

    @Lance: I think for a lot of us the older we get the more these things make sense and the more in-tune we become with them. I guess at first we're learning how to survive in the world and once we've mastered that we can go on to ask loftier questions such as: survival for what?

    @Urban Panther: I think it's a great approach to see your cubicle job as a stepping stone to something bigger and better. We all have to start somewhere :-)
  • Mare
    @Hunter: The word Chakra means "wheel" in Sanskrit (so when you speak of chakras you're generally referring to the Buddhist tradition), but the concept of energy points in different parts of the body that affect our physical, emotional, mental, and financial well-being, as well as our ability to relate to others, exists in several different cultures, including the Chinese and the Egyptians.
  • Oh, I was so not happy in my Dilbert Cube. I'm an artist for crying out loud, not an IT project manager! Then my brother clued me into blogging as an outlet for my creativity. Which has led to the potential for some type of e-business in partnership with the Urbane Lion. Which has led to an even stronger relationship with the Lion, and the discovery of a whole community of wonderful like minded people. And the Dilbert Cube job? All of a sudden it's not so painful. It provides me with the much needed steady income while other revenue lines are investigated. In other words, it simply becomes part of the Master Plan, and I am grateful for it, rather than resentful.

    Urban Panthers last blog post..Santagati and the Great Canadian Beaver
  • This is a continuous process for me, and the older I get, the more connected to these chakra's I feel. Even though this is a new term to me, and I see also that there is much more for me to understand in how these chakras all relate together.

    I like also how you have stated it Ann, that our lifes work and our paid work don't have to be the same thing. I am seeing this as true more and more. I would like to see them continue to come together more, but I also see that they can be separate and still both fulfilling.

    Much to sort through now...
  • I think we (myself included) assume that our "life's work" and our "paid work" have to be one and the same.

    My life's work now is to be a mom; I'm very lucky that I also have paid work that is meaningful, challenging and flexible enough for me to pursue my life's work.

    Ann at One Bag Nations last blog post..Wear Your Clothes!
  • Very cool! Is the chakra system associated with any particular culture, or is it a more universal thing?

    Hunter Nuttalls last blog post..How To Finally Find What You Love To Do And Get Paid For Doing It
  • Mare
    @MizFit: I'm glad you found it useful. I am realizing more and more that life is a balance between striving and reaching out for what you want on the one hand, and relaxing and letting it come to you on the other.

    @Cath: Studying the chakra system is very interesting and I think it can help us in many ways on our path to self-actualization.
  • Mare
    @Chris: Yes, we tend to be very attuned to what the outside world thinks we should do and completely ignore our inner voice. It's like spending our whole lives searching for something when it was inside of us all along.

    @Barbara: I think chasing the dollar is scarcity thinking. I also think that when we're doing what we came here to do it's as if we're upholding our side of the bargain, so if you're attentive you'll be able to see all of the ways that are being shown to you to make sure that all of your financial needs are taken care of.
  • cathlawson
    Hi Mare - this sounds interesting. Akemi recomended that I study the Chakras and this has been an excellent starting point.

    I'll also be checking out some of the books you mentioned. I'd read the 4 hour work week but I had no idea there were so many others.

    Cath Lawsons last blog post..Toxic Relationships - Does Blood Matter?
  • I adore this post.
    and, as a former career counselor, I wish Id come to all YOUVE COME TO earlier in life.


    xo xo,

    MizFit

    MizFits last blog post..Monday Facetime: Goals revisited.
  • Hi Marelisa,

    I think too many people are chasing the dollar. Instead of following their passion,they follow what society often dictates...making more money will make you a better provider, etc.

    But what often happens is that although a big check is nice,(and can buy nice things), if the person isn't happy, all the money in the world won't change that.

    I do agree with your writings, we do need to open the channels and do more self exploration.

    Barbara Swaffords last blog post..A Day In The Life Of A Blogger
  • Many people live miserably because they don't listen to what their inner selves are telling them. Instead of being in tune with their thoughts and emotions, they listen too much with the outside noise. I too am guilty of the same thing. It's only when I really allow everything to flow that I become at peace with myself and my passions in life.

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