Journaling as a Way to Rediscover Your Authentic Self

by Mare on May 6, 2008

journalingWriting, especially self-exploratory writing done on a regular basis, has been linked to emotional well-being and a stronger sense of self-knowledge and self-trust. Many people find that writing is therapeutic, it helps to release tension, and it can even be used as a form of meditation.

Writing gives insight, it gives perspective, it’s a problem-solving technique, and it can serve as an outlet for bottled up emotions, unresolved trauma, or for creative expression. Journaling is a great way to introduce self-exploratory writing into your life.

If you wish to establish a journaling practice, one approach is to purchase a moleskine, set a timer for twenty minutes, and simply write whatever comes to mind without stopping until the timer goes off. However, there are two writing techniques which can help make your journaling sessions more satisfying, efficient and effective. These two methods are Proprioceptive Writing and Morning Pages. Both methods are explained below.

Proprioceptive Writing

This writing practice was created in 1976 by Linda Trichter Metcalf, and has been perfected through the years at the PW Center in Maine. “Proprioception” comes from the Latin “proprius” meaning “one’s own”, and Proprioceptive Writing consists of listening to your thoughts and slowing down the thought process to the time it takes to write down what you’re thinking. It involves inner listening and an honest exploration of your thoughts and feelings. In addition, it connects your mind with your emotions, and it strengthens your sense of self.

To carry out this practice you simply find a place where you will not be disturbed for twenty-five minutes; you light a candle, turn on Baroque music, and place a stack of unlined white paper and a pen in front of you. The candle is meant to create a sacred space for your writing and to help you focus, and Baroque music has been shown to induce the alpha brain frequency, the level of mind commonly associated with meditation.

To begin you simply take the first thought that enters your mind and write it down. You then proceed to write down what you’re thinking, what you’re feeling, what interests you, and what concerns you. As you write, don’t worry about grammar, punctuation, word usage, sentence structure, style or eloquence. Ask yourself: “What do I mean by _____” whenever something you write down catches your attention. This helps to amplify that thought and allows you to reflect on it more meaningfully. Proprioceptive Writing differs from stream of consciousness writing in that you’re not asked to simply write without thinking; quite the opposite, you’re instructed to reflect on your thoughts.

Although you’re asked to listen to yourself and to reflect on what you’re thinking, you’re not to judge or critique what you’re writing down. Think of yourself as an archeologist on a dig, curiously scrutinizing and examining each thought, without judgment. At the end you can read what you wrote out loud to yourself so that you can hear your thoughts again in your own voice. This practice will help you to explore your mind, reconnect with your inner self and with your emotions, and find your authentic voice.

Morning Pages

Mental clutter or debris stands in the way of our creative potential. In the book, “The Artist’s Way at Work”, the authors offer Morning Pages as a tool to help you clear out this debris. As the name suggests, Morning Pages are to be done in the morning; the waking mind is more open to free-form writing and can more easily jump from one subject to another without the constraints set by reason. When writing your Morning Pages there is no time limit, instead, you’re asked to write until you’ve filled three pages in long hand. This takes some people twenty minutes, while it takes others forty or forty-five minutes. You simply write down anything that comes to mind for three pages and then stop. Your writing can be about the things that you hope to accomplish during the day, questions you need answered, problems you need to solve, and so on.

Morning Pages help us prioritize and organize our days according to our authentic needs and agendas. Think of them as a holding spot for your thoughts, feelings, ideas, and inspirations to emerge. In addition, Morning Pages help us to identify the different voices of our inner self. The authors of the “The Artist’s Way at Work” explain that we all possess the following inner voices: the Tyrant, the Rebel, the Inner Critic, the Inner Mentor, and the Inner Child, among others. As you progress with your Morning Pages you will learn to recognize each of these voices and get better at identifying which ones to ignore and which ones you need to pay more attention to.

Conclusion

Whatever method you choose, I would strongly encourage you to begin a regular practice of journaling. Many people have what they call a “holy hour” in the morning, which they use for meditation, contemplation, or simply to gather their thoughts before the day officially begins. Consider creating a sacred space for yourself every morning in which there is nothing but you and a blank sheet of paper beckoning you to set forth your thoughts, feelings, needs, and wants, and to reconnect with yourself.

“The act of putting pen to paper encourages pause for thought, this in turn makes us think more deeply about life, which helps us regain our equilibrium.”

~Norbet Platt

(The “Coffee and Moleskine IV” photograph is courtesy of Lost in Scotland).

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Mustafa 11.19.08 at 8:32 pm

Hi Mare !

Curious to know whether you are able to implement so many ideas in your life. I find it difficult to implement very few

Mare 11.19.08 at 8:49 pm

Hi Mustafa: I find that when I really want something I am able to implement it. That’s why I think it’s important to “download” the ideas that you have by writing them down so that you can look through them and decide which are important and worthy of your time and energy and which are just passing thoughts.

Mustafa 11.20.08 at 10:04 pm

Hi Mare !

Started collecting ideas thru Tumblr. Feels good thanks a lot. Any suggestions on my site http://kbfms.tumblr.com ?

Mare 11.23.08 at 1:02 am

Hi Mustafa: I visited your Tumblr. I see you’re using it as a place to download your ideas, I think that’s excellent. And the photographs are beautiful; I especially liked the three children hugging. Thank you for the mention :-)

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